Bridesmaids were a nightmare!!!

[endlesslove]

At my shower- no clue why they ignored me. Said they felt out of place...that doesn't meas you ignore 20+ people!

 

The following day we went out to take pictures since we are all into photography. One of them hit me with a tripod in the head and in return I got a horrible headache and I guess they were pissed off I wasn't taking pictures of them and waited two hours for them to finish taking photos of themselves. To me it just seems like they expected the weekend to be about them, and were annoyed when it wasn't. The one who hit me in the head never even bothered to ask "Are you okay" She just said Oops! laughed and walked away.

 

Yes, definitely glad to be rid of them. I don't need this nonsense at my wedding!

 

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Originally Posted by SSNM WTF??   How the hell is someone going to lock you out of a room IN YOUR OWN HOME?   Yea, sounds like you are better off without them in your party and I agree, better now than at your wedding. But seriously, like others have said, people don't just do things like that for no reason unless they require medication...I wonder what would have made them act like that towards you?   Anyway, it is in the past. Just keep looking forward to your new life with FH

[CHAKLIT]

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Originally Posted by Patti Oh, what a horrible story. So sorry that happenened. I'm only having one attendant. It doesn't matter how many you have. It's all about you and what's best for you. It will be ok.

I concur!!

Sorry to hear bout your nightmare

[lizzyl875]

Sorry to hear! They sound horrible. If your friends don't know you well enough to not believe the rumors, then maybe they're not worth having in the first place. Why did they go nuts?

[AJandNate2010]

Oh my gosh that is horrible! They obviously had something up their @$$es that weekend.

 

I planned on having 5 bridesmaids and a flower girl and my FI has 7 groomsmen. I'm completely cool with it being uneven except now my cousin can't come to mexico so I am down 1. I might ask another cousin to stand up so it's not so lopsided. I really don't think you having 1 and him having 3 is so bad. If he had 4 then it might be a little off.

 

I hope everything gets cleared up soon!