Rethinking Wedding Plans

jajajaja · May 23, 2008

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Originally Posted by July09

I used to work up on Mackinac Island in Michigan. While it isn't Hawaii, it is a very beautiful place and there are tons of hotels and restaurants and bars and things to do. No cars. Only bicycles and horse drawn wagons/carriages and lots and lots of boats.

Oooh my. That sounds fantastic. How cute!

Hartyt509 · May 23, 2008

Take some time to really think about what you and FI want, you don't want to re-arrange and then find out FI is really miserable about it. I know its hard which is why you should stop, seriously think about it and then make a decision.

Also why don't you as your mum her thoughts as you may find she will be gutted if you don't stick to what you had your heart set on.

Jen_S · May 24, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about loss, especially your father so close to your wedding. I lost mine not too long ago it will take some time but with the support of your family and FI it will help.

Maybe take a bit of time talk to the guests that you really would like to have there and see what they could afford (I am sure they all could use a vacation). I really wanted certain people to attend our DW so we asked them what they could afford then selected a resort that fit everyone's needs. I am sure your FI will change the location to marry you! Then you can always have a anniv. or honeymoon in Hawaii. Good Luck on your decision!!