Are you and your fiance waiting to consumate...

[RunningBride24]

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Originally Posted by peterpanpixiedust The very first time I did anything to "finish my basement" I decided to go Brazilian. Even though I don't have sex, I hate hair down there. It was a bit painful due to the fact that I had a decent amount (sorry if TMI), but the lady said I wouldn't need to trim before hand. Well, I should have anyway. Because of the length, it pulled for quite a bit before it actually ripped off (OUCHIES!). And I had some bleeding (only pin pricks). It helped to laugh it off while she was doing it. But every time after, it was fine. The only thing is.... I don't get them anymore because my hair seriously starting stubbling back after only THREE days! I couldn't believe after all the money I spent. So I tried a few more and then it still grew back. It doesn't even grow that fast when I shave and in general, my body hair is fine, and i don't have much down there. So now i just shave. I don't even get facial hair (no upper lip waxes for me... yay!). I have no idea why it does that, but I do want a wax before the we marry. Thing is, I leave 4 days before and I would start being stubbly by our wedding night. I have to see if Dreams offers services. Maybe we should all go to SOMA or Hair today gone tomorrow for lazer treatment.

Hehe 'finish my basement' cracked me up. I'm in your boat, we leave Wednesday and don't get married until Sunday. I think I'll go and get it done on Tuesday. My waxing lady said that should be almost perfect. Have you looked around for a different place? The place I go is appropriately called "The Box". Gotta love the humor.

[purpleshells]

omg your little girl is soooooo friggen cute!!!!!!!!!!

 

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Originally Posted by Kat81 I waited for a long time before I had sex for the first time. When I got with my FI the "plan" was to wait at least six months before we had sex. It lasted about three weeks! BUT, I think it is sooo amazing that you girls have waited. What a wonderful honeymoon you all will have. Froggie, I think it is so great you have waited. I have a friend that has waited she is 27 and no where near getting married and I have seen how hard it is for her.

[purpleshells]

im curious to see about the girls who are waiting if it will be all that their expecting..let us know!! Hope its worth it!!!

 

I was determined to not have a sexless wedding night! but from what i hear from friends and stuff...a lot of couples dont do it on the wedding night cuz theyre either tired or drunk...lol But we fought through all of that and did it anyway!! LOL

[carolina24]

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Originally Posted by Ayita What an interesting conversation ! On my side I actually always had the reverse approach : sex is so important in my life that I truly believed that a man with whom sex would be bad could not be the man of my life. Independent of all his other qualities ! After all, your husband is is the ONLY person with whom you are going to have sex for the rest of your life so... what if it's terrible sex ? I honestly think, knowing myself very well, that this would have been a disaster - maybe even leading me to cheating which is the ONE THING I NEVER WANT to do ever ! It was therefore very important to me to do it... actually before we even got engaged so that I could have an answer at all ! Not sure if it makes sense to you girls who decided to wait - you would probably look at me with the same eyes than people look at you when you tell them about your decision, lol !

I completly, 110% understand what you're saying!!!! sex is a VERY important part of a relationship and if you're not compatible in that aspect, it's a deal breaker for me! you took the words right out of my mouth, this could've been my exact post, lol!!!

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Originally Posted by barbiegirl_27 My FI almost laughed in my face when I joked about waiting once we got engaged! We've lived together for over a year....and there's no way either one of us could hold out that long! Good for you ladies out there who are waiting! Your wedding night will be truly special!

i will be with my HUSBAND, so my night will be "truly special" whether we wait or not...

[hockeymom97]

I'm glad to see something posted on this subject...FI and I have def already been together but was thinking about asking him if we should stop for a certain period of time before the wedding. I have a feeling he's going to look at me like I'm crazy!! I'm still undecided on how long we should wait....our DW is in May, so it could be for that whole year (which would be just over 4 months since our DW is the beginning of May) or maybe just for the month before? I think the waiting would be hard for him, but with all the stress I have lately, it's just killing my sex drive, and if my schedule is as crazy as it is now, I think I might be able to wait with no problem. I might actually appreciate the extra sleep, lol!!

[hockeymom97]

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Originally Posted by peterpanpixiedust The very first time I did anything to "finish my basement" I decided to go Brazilian.

"finish my basement"....LOL...I haven't heard that one before but it's cute!

[bigboponthebeach]

Very interesting topic, Ladies! I can see both sides of the coin. :-)

[janapana]

We have 2 kids, so it´s definitely a no to that question, although we´re both so busy with work, we never see each other... and when we do, we sleep! Have managed to extract a promise from my ma and pa that they´ll take the kids off us for a few days over the wedding so we can have a bit of "us" time.... ie no sneaking off to the bathroom for a quickie while the kids are watching tv!

 

and who said romance is dead??

[smtc0245]

I am with the poster above me FI and I had a baby girl in April. So waiting is not in the cards for us. My bestfriend however waited until her wedding night and I remember the next day she came out (also a destination wedding) and said why didn't anyone tell me how much that hurt haha it was cute

[MsSmithtobe]

That's so sweet, I plan on just stopping maybe 3 months before the wedding, I don't know how successful that will be lol