Should we......????

do it before in the USA. it's so much easier to avoid any legal issues. the judge who married us said he'd heard too many stories of complications of legality after people get married in mexico and weren't on top of everything.

I 100% say do it in Cali. I think you should do it before you go. Just get it over with and then have your wonderful ceremony in Cabo with no stress.

Not only do I say do it in CA beofre you go but... we did it today! Shhhh.... We're technically married!

Of course I dont' feel married - it's just the paperwork part. Our friend (the one who is going to marry us in Mexico) came bay and we signed the paperwork today. He got his license from teh Universal Life Coach and in fact Dan married him and his wife!

That's so cool Kash!

Yes, after all the horror stories, we're going to do ours before or after rather than in MExico. I can't decide which, but FI really wants to do it before, he thinks he'll feel really bummed out if the whole thing happens in mexico and we're still not really married!! So, we will do it before.