No wedding party

With a DW you can do what ever feels right to you. I wanted none, but my FI wanted a few, so we comprimised and I chose my sister and BFF, he is having 3 close friends. It feels just right. All of our friends who are attending are honorary BMs and GMs as they would have been standing up with us if we had a traditional at home wedding.

I've seen it done both ways. I personally didn't have a wedding party, but that's because we only had 6 guests attend the wedding. Anything goes when you have a DW, do as little or as much as you want to. I've seen big poofy dresses and sun dresses as wedding day attire, again it's all up to you. It will be great regardless. :-)

its whatever you want...FI and I talked about it on the drive home from getting engaged and we wanted a bridal party and we knew exactly who we wanted. we are having 4 bridesmaids and 4 groomsmen - about 100 people at our wedding.

Im either having no wedding party at all, or just my sister as my MOH, still haven't decided. Either way, I didn't want the fuss of a bridal party, less things to deal with IMO

We're just having my sister (MOH) and her husband (who happens to be my FI's Best friend) as the BM so it works out perfectly. The only thing is i have a brother too and i was feeling bad not having him be involved but he said as long as he can wear the same thing as the BM he was ok with that. He's nuts- but it made me feel better

We are just having a MOH and BM.

I want just a MOH and BM but he has so many friends that we are compromising in the middle. Only thing is now he has narrowed down to three and I only have two. I guess I will try to talk him down to two as well. Thanks for the input!

at the most i'll have a moh and a best man. but i'm not sure about it yet. i think there will probably be less than 10 people there so i want everyone sitting down really, so it won't look empty. plus i'm having a vow renewal so i really don't need attendants.

Geez...you all are putting me to shame!! I'm not having a wedding party OR guests!! Our ceremony will be a vow renewals for us and our First wedding ceremony. Been married 20 years so not really needing sheets and toasters! We want this to be ALL ABOUT US... Not to mention I can't deal with the stress any of the elements of a traditional wedding