question about kids ages

I know most of the resorts charge the adult rate for kids 13 and over ... I have a family member whose daughter is 13 but they want to book her as 12 so she can get the child's rate and use the Kid's Club ... does anyone know much about this? Someone told me they do not check the kids ID's or proof of age ... we are looking at Dreams ... I would appreciate any info on this. Thanks!

I was talking to my friend who is our TA also, b/c my nephew at the time of booking will be 12 but be 13 when we travel. She said the resorts do NOT check nor do they care. So I don't think you have anything to worry about!

We've traveled with FI kids and they have never asked for proof of age or anything! I don't think they care at all. The only time you have to show or use your passport is at the airport through immigration. I'd say go for it and you shouldn't have a problem at all.

Tell them to book her as 12 and make sure they tell the daughter that, so she doesn't blow it! I can totally see my niece correcting her mom or dad at the most inappropriate moment...like checking in and confirming she is under 13...