I hate hypocrites!!

People can be so unbelieveable . . .

When we first announced our wedding plans for Jamaica, future step mother in law had a cow. Constant criticism about how selfish it was, and how dare we expect people to use their vacation time for our wedding, and how dare we make people pay to go, etc. She even told me that fiancee's dad isn't sure he has enough vacation time for the wedding (which is an absolute lie - the man never takes vacation and probably has months and months accumulated in his vacation bank).

So . . . . I find out this week that my fiancee's brother's best friend is getting married and they are having a "destination wedding" in Key West. I use the quotes because the bride and groom already live in Florida. And fiancee's step mother and his dad are invited to the wedding. Don't you know they think it is the BEST thing and immediate made plans to book their room and flights to go to this wedding set for Valentines Day (so even less time to prep than our wedding scheduled for July 17th). For this weekend wedding it will cost them MORE than it will cost to go to Jamaica for a week for our wedding.

And to top it off, the people who are getting married in Key West make over $500,000.00 a year. My fiancee and I found out about this because we were informed to go look at their wedding website (meaning it was more fancy than ours). I can just see and hear it now . . . all the comparisons that will be made between their wedding in Key West and our wedding in Jamaica. And mind you, we are renting out five fully staffed beachfront private villas for our wedding, so it isn't like we are doing anything cheap.

You know, this destination wedding stuff really brings out the true colors in some people!

You know what?? Screw them! I know it hurts some what but you don't need negative people around you. If they want to constantly bring you down maybe it is better that they don't come! I just want to beat people like that. That makes me so mad I seriously could poke their eyes out

That blows, I agree F them!

Im sorry. People suck!! But im sorry that it has to be your future family.

I really think that we should write a destination wedding book. Chapter 3 will go something like this: PEOPLE SUCK

1. Family will make you mad

2. Brides maids will drop out last minute.

3. Grooms men......well they suck too.

4. Freinds will avoid you

the list goes on and on.

Keep your eyes on the prize! Who cares what they think, they already had their wedding or will do theirs whoever they please. And you are doing just that! Once you start getting people booked, you'll see, all the negative comments will just bounce off!

I wish you strength and a shot of tequila!

My BM will be eight months by the time my wedding comes around. She is not coming to the wedding.