OMG mate moving into spare room!!

Its a really long story but the short version is that a lad I went to school with and have been friends for years has finally had enough of his wife and is leaving.

 

I've been saying for months look i have a spare room anytime you need a bolt hole its there.

 

So I just get a text saying i've told her im off and she said "ok" !!!

 

I mean who just says "ok"!!!

 

So he said he is going to his mam's first but will be here a couple of nights during the week because she will do his head in lol

 

Now I love him but ffs I've lived on my own for years this is going to be tough lmao

Thats what you get for trying to be a good freind!! Bummer for him though.

That will be tough! I don't envy you at all!

 

I have a friend like that though, he would make me crazy, but he couls stay with me as long as he needed.

 

Keep telling yourself that you are a good friend, especially when he starts to irritate you!

Lmao when he starts irritating me i'll tell him to bugger off back to his mothers lol

Haha, some offers you just never think people will actually take you up on. Good for you for being a great friend tho! Always nice to know you have a friend you can depend on.

I've been there done that. Hope everything works out ok.

But if not, do like you said and tell him to pack sand and kick rocks.

So this guy friend of yours is moving out of the house he share with his wife and now is coming to stay with you? And this happens to be a friend you have romantic feelings for?

No he's a friend from school. Just because you're female you are allowed male friends you know!!!

Oh yeah and that stupid little thing like i'm getting bloody married in May 09!!!

His wife is a lazy money grabbing bitch and its nothing to do with me why he's leaving I'm just there to pick up the pieces ITS WHAT FRIENDS DO!!!!

That is such a typical responce from a man. Not every women is deeply in love with their male freinds.

Ok I'm sorry but is it really necessary to jump on my case just because I was inquiring about the situation? It's not like I was saying you were in the wrong! After all, you said you loved him, so how was I supposed to know if you meant loved him romantically or just as a friend? I don't know what the real specifics of the situation are, hence the question....




No kidding, I totally understand that it's possible to love someone of the opposite sex without it being romantic. I think we can all vouch for that! So maybe it was wrong of me to question it, I don't know.