The new season of the Bachelorette

She is obviously still stuck on what happened with Brad and Graham. They were the two that got away in her mind. For Jesse and Jason's sake, I hope she isn't using them to make herself feel better. I hope she truely does love one of them because they are great guys and would make any girl very lucky. I love them both and wish I could hook up some of my single girls with them.

I know, right? Call me a skeptic, but I just don't buy into the Bachelor/Bachelorette "process". So, you're telling me that your future spose is in a group of 25 people hand picked from a bunch of ABC execs & you can fall in love with that person in 2 months while one of you dates a slew of other people. God bless Ryan & Trista, because I could not do that.

I'm done for the night ladies.....I swear!

Well, I think you can find love in two months. I knew instantly with Ryan as soon as he got me to go on a date with him that is. But, I do think that they throw so much romance and money into it sometimes I think it interfers with their ability to tell how they are feeling. They get so caught up in the amazing dates and beautiful places how could you not think you are inlove. There aren't any bills or family or work, ya know? It's easy to "fall in love" in fairy tale land.

I did, so I know it can happen, and I agree with you that the romance & fantasy dates don't prepare these guys for the reality of the relationship.

whoa, brought this thread down, right?

on a lighter note, I agree with you ladies, it did look like our Bachelorette put on a few lbs.

Well...I'm totally pissed. My mom called when she was on the date with Jeremy. Since I hadn't talked to her in a couple weeks I had to take the call. So I recorded the rest. Then the second part came on and I had to record that. Well...low and behold I'm walking through the living room to go iron my clothes and I see Jeremy on stage. So I'm pissed because I didn't turn the television off and ended up seeing she didn't chose him before seeing the entire episode of the one on one dates. Guess I'll go home tonight and watch them both. I really wished she would have chosen him because I don't think Jesse is really ready for marriage right now and Jason is just too good for her. He is the sweetest man and I think she will walk all over the poor guy.

I guess I'm in the minority here, but I actually thought Deanna looked very nice last night and handled herself well. I'm not sure if I'm a real believer in the process, but I still hope she has found true love.

I think she picks Jason. If you look at the shots for the previews she kisses him on the lips and Jesse on the cheek. Can't wait to see...

Did anyone see her earrings last night (during the rose ceremony)? They were hoopish.. but not really circles, and looked like diamonds or something. Anyway, I WANT them for the wedding!

 

I've thought Jason would be the guy from the begining, but everytime I see Jesse I can't get over how cute he is!

Ok I didn't get to watch any of last night's episode- I just got to watch last Monday's since I was out of town. I will say that I ran into our house around 9ish (we play softball every monday night) to turn on the recorder because I forgot. I was PISSED to see the tell all with freakin Jeremy sitting there. Grrr....now I need to watch the show I forgot to tape online.

 

What the hell happened? After watching last Monday's I would have NEVER thought she would boot him. I kinda wished she picked him because she isn't my favorite and neither is he. I love Jason and Jesse.

 

Good riddance to Graham being gone. I'm sorry- I understand not being able to open up. I struggled with that myself. My DH is the only guy I have ever allowed myself to love- I ran away from my emotions with all other guys. HOWEVER, I would not go on a show that is designed to find your future SO. What did he expect? It's lame- he's lame. He should have stayed home and slowly worked through his emotions with someone else who can afford the time.

but then we never would have been able to see him with his shirt off.