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Hi Ladies, I was just reading through a recent thread and I thought this would be a good topic for the forum. Let me know if there are already threads about this! My Dad is walking me down the aisle but I agree with some of the ladies that saying 'who gives this woman in marriage' doesn't fit for me. We're very close but it's a little old school for me. I know he could just walk me and sit down but does anyone have ideas of something to say in place of this?

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Originally Posted by jamisoncollette View Post
We are using "who shares this woman" because my parents aren't ready to give me to anyone!
I like that!

I unfortunately am giving myself away..I guess in a sense I already gave myself to him lol

I sure hope they don't ask this question because my dad won't be there sad.gif and I'm sure it will get me crying!
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I like this. It's very sweet. I did a google search and found this.

 

Officiant: Now is when traditionally it is asked who is giving this bride's hand in marriage. Instead, I ask you, Bride's Name, is it true are you here of your own free will and do you come with your family's blessings?

 

Bride: Yes, it is true.

 

Officiant: Wonderful. And with whom do you come and who's blessings accompany you?

 

FATHER: She comes with me, her father, and she is accompanied by all of her family's love and blessings.

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I like this. It's very sweet. I did a google search and found this.

Officiant: Now is when traditionally it is asked who is giving this bride's hand in marriage. Instead, I ask you, Bride's Name, is it true are you here of your own free will and do you come with your family's blessings?

Bride: Yes, it is true.

Officiant: Wonderful. And with whom do you come and who's blessings accompany you?

FATHER: She comes with me, her father, and she is accompanied by all of her family's love and blessings.
Ohhh, I really like this!! THanks!!

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I was thinking about this too b/c my oldest brother is walking me down since my parents have passed away.
I'm sorry! frown.gif It will be very sentimental to have your brother do so and I am sure the one that Lucky recommended would work great.

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I like that!

I unfortunately am giving myself away..I guess in a sense I already gave myself to him lol

I sure hope they don't ask this question because my dad won't be there sad.gif and I'm sure it will get me crying!
I don't think they will if you don't walk with anyone down the aisle. Sorry your Dad won't be there. ouch_125.gif

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We are using "who shares this woman" because my parents aren't ready to give me to anyone!

That's funny, I can see my Dad saying something like that.rofl.gif
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Originally Posted by Ellipse22 View Post
I unfortunately am giving myself away..I guess in a sense I already gave myself to him lol
grouphug.gif Your not alone in this one. I read a thread on here where someone suggested your FH meet you 1/2 way down the aisle. I though it was the sweetest thing. This is what we are doing and I am going to carry a memory frame with my dads picture in it so that both of the important men in my life are with me. Might make you feel a bit better to about your dad not being there....
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