July '08 NEWLYWEDS chat!

hope you used your personal account! and you can always sell it here for a BDW discount if you do find the other.

 

shat, what are you gonna tell him if you dont find the other? just pretend you did find it? then what if the other turns up?? arrrgghhh! that sucks.

of course i used my personal account, actually i used a balance leftover in my paypal account so theres no trace of me buying another ring unless he gets into my paypal LOL. thankfully i am also the only one who picks up the mail and packages, so i can just ditch the box before i get in the house.

if i do find the other, i just wont say anything. he would be even madder if he knew i bought a second one. i havent really figured out what to do yet. i guess ill cross that bridge when i come to it! i just dont want him to worry about it. we just had to have a car repair today that was $400 so i dont want him to worry about money the closer we get to the wedding, KWIM? if i just take care of it and he doesnt find out til after the wedding i think that would be best for everyone.

omg your car is brand new!! what had to be done? that bites

Ahh Maura! I am so sorry you were in tears!

 

I got my ring back form getting them sized and they are so tight! i think they sized them a half size to small .. I might have to go back! there is no way my FI will beable to get my band on durning the ceremony with out my help!!! plus my fingers will probably be swollen due to the heat! what a rip off! I hope they don't charge me! Once i get it past my knuckle i am fine! Damn Knuckle.. maybe I'll just keep it who knows!

its a 2004... while jose was gone, i was driving my friend home from dinner one night and the check engine light went on and the car was running super slow. i was totally freaked and called the dealership where we have it serviced and he told me to do a couple things and check a few things, and then to drive it around 4-5 dif times to see if something would reset itself. it did, but jose still took it in this morning as a precaution.

he texted me from the dealership a bit ago to say it was a sensor that was the problem, so the gas mixture was too rich, and thats what caused the problem, so as a result, they had to replace the sensor, gas & air filters and change the oil. so the grand total was about $400. i asked him if i could give him some money toward it, but he said no, so....

wow that sucks. when the engine light goes on in the jeep it means the gas cap isnt screwed on tight enough. weird, huh?

they told me to try that, but my gas cap was on tight. i took it off and screwed it back on tight again, and after driving it 3 more times the engine light went off, but i still was nervous about it. glad we took it in because it wasnt using the fuel efficiently at all, so its fixed now, but after $400 ugh!

What if Jose finds it after you get married while you are wearing the replacement band? eeek! I could never keep it a secret. I would just tell him I bought a new one...but my case might be different because Jay loses EVERYTHING and there is no way he could be mad at me.

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I didn't think of that... that could be bad news bears!

i'll tell him, just not until after the wedding. i know he isnt looking for it, so i dont think itll be a problem.