Are you and your fiance waiting to consumate...

i have no self-restraint. i practically attacked dh on our second date, a story which he loves to tell.

 

i give you props tho, good for you for waiting!

I hate it when girls do that! My hairdresser tells me about how she hasn't given her husband any for a week because he made her mad I'm like WTF?! I don't think I could go that long for one and for two that is just not what sex is for. It's not a powertrip

OMG, me too! We had a bottle of red wine at dinner and now as a joke he will say how about a bottle of red wine and then let's go back to my place. LOL! So cute, memories!

If we were living together we would have done it already!!

Five years? Just kill me. But, then I have been married before and I know what I'm missing!

Yeah...we initially said we just wouldn't have intercourse. But, on two occassions we did other stuff!! However, that just made it really hard so we just stopped doing the other stuff. So now we make out like a couple of teenagers. I've never kissed so much in my life. And sometimes I think he's going to hurt himself with all the grinding he does!!

I think this is entirely a personal choice (and not one I've made) but I don't really understand why the choice to wait is considered something to send kudos about?

 

I respect either decision, but I don't see myself as weak for having sex prior to marriage, nor do I see anyone else as strong for having waited.

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Ok Ok..it probably wasnt pun intended, but I had to make note of it! No self restraint in this department either lol!

LOL there I go again speaking before I think... One time I was at a bowling alley the kind with the speakers to talk to the front desk and my bowling ball wasn't coming back out and then my ex threw his and it didn't come back. So, I went to the speaker and said "Um hi your machine won't work and my balls are all stuck up in there" My ex and brother started laughing so hard and I couldn't even understand what the guy was saying back I was sooo mortified!!! My brother still quotes that line LOL

I don't think it's bad to have sex... Trust me lol. But I think it takes a lot of mental and physical strength not to. I couldn't do it at all!! I'm not weak I just have a really really strong sex drive.

Ladies in Waiting... I HIGHLY suggest getting lots of sleep the night before the wedding and relaxing the day of the wedding... dont drink too much or dance too much or anything else too much or else you wont have the strength to do the do later on that night. In fact if any of you all were me, I would be shutting down the reception by 8pm so FI and I could get to business!

As far as me waiting... Geez FI cant get me to get off of him most of the time. But we pretty much are a married couple without the papers. We are going to try to make a baby before July.

TMI!!! LMAO! Somehow I have a visual!!! You are too funny!
LOL Pisces, as a person with a serious sex drive... waiting is a soooooooooo hard to do! You either have to be really strong or just unavailable to men. And in my opinion a hand or tool cannot replace a man.