I am sooooo PISSED!

yeah.....i guess that i was to busy seeing red that i must have missed that part. i went back and reread it and she says "I also wanted to see if you could do some engagement pics for us". Yup she sure did......

All I can do at this point is shake my head in disgust.....speachless!

Wow. Just catching up with this now.

Sounds to me like it's time to cut the ties. She's undermining your wedding, doing it last minute, and in advance of yours. She doesn't return your calls, and still wants you to take her engagement photos?

Where I come from we don't call people like that "friends".

Send her your price list. The special one - like they do with tourist menus.

This girl has lost her mind, do not even waste your time with her. Walk away and don't share your hard working wedding research with her. She's crazy!

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I don't know that I have anything to add that hasn't already been stated. I would go to her and just say you're hurt and you're sorry that she can't accept you or Tim or your choices and she apparently doesn't wish to continue your friendship, and you wish her the best in planning and wedding alone. Or, you could send her an e-mail--that seems to be her style.

We had a friend from high school that did this with all of us--pushed and pushed, said everything about everyone, only did what she wanted, and could only call when it was convenient. Now that she is getting married, she's realized that she has pushed everyone away and is trying to make ammends.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Morgan Is this a friendship you want to continue? I know you've been friends a long time, but if she is a toxic friend maybe it's best to part ways. We don't know the whole relationship of course, but the stuff she is doing sounds bad. I have had my share of negative friends & life is so much better being surrounded by friends that bring out the best in you.

Erin - that is funny, I knew I recoginzed "toxic friend" from somewhere! Loved that season.

Danielle - wow. This girl is totally jealour and trying to upstage you. I don't have much to add, but what a b-i-t-c-h! I agree with the price list thing - unless you do want to continue the friendship. Cuz if you do, then that might cause some unnecessary drama.

I would be just as pissed as you!