GRRRR... EX GF's. and GF's

she lives in nj...but has no attachment to it...she was recently looking into moving to hawaii, but that was short lived.
she says yes to your proposal. you'll be married within the year

within the year oh noo. i need to get rolling faster then that. i am like the typical woman and i have a set timeline for my life...

1. born
2. graduate high school by 18
3. college by 22 (the timeline here was more relaxed)
4. married by 30 years 9 months and 17 days...

so as you can see we need to be married by april 22nd...

hopefully she is okay with that

i'll pm you her myspace

1. born

2. graduate high school by 18

3. college by 22 (the timeline here was more relaxed)

4. married by 30 years 9 months and 17 days...

 

thats my wifey!!!

what?? you're married you are cheating on me?? how dare you nic.. i thougth we had something

Women aren't hard to read... you just forget about "man eyes"... you know, that thing you guys do where you don't see the ketchup bottle in the fridge if it's sitting behind the ranch dressing.


Frank's best friend and I have had this discussion before. He's in a similar boat---- amazing guy who would be one of those guys every girl admits would be the perfect kind of guy. But it doesn't work out for him.

What I've noticed in most people (men and women both)--- is that they try to put people into a specific role in their lives instead of letting them take the role they were meant to take. They'll see someone in public that they are attracted to and the first thought is to talk to them and see if it leads to getting a date, which could lead to dating and relationships. It's a lot of pressure on people, because it's always about seeing how they fit into this mold of what the person is looking for in a partner. I think when we set aside that "dating" mentality and approach people the same way we do our casual friends- that it really relaxes the situation enough for it to go as fas as it was meant to go.

enough psych-babble.... sorry.

very well put... i agree with you... that is why i dont pick up girls in bars or antyhing of that nature. simply because its all a front and no one is ever themselves... i much more need to know that i can click and mesh with them first and have something beyond just the looks... granted physical attraction is always important but if i cant carry on a conversation with these women (like two of the last girls) then whats the point..

oh well... i have faith that one day ill find mine