So, what's bugging you today?

I'm just going to stop smiling so much. Voila- problem solved.

I have so many gripes today where to begin lol

We haven't even told the FMIL about the wedding yet because she will start sticking her nose in, I will explode and end up beating her brains in with a sharp implement lol good thing is i suppose I can represent myself when I'd done for manslaughter cause no judge would convict me if they met the witch.

My FI found out by pure chance that his mother's boyfriend had bought a kilt for our wedding (which they don'e know is happening yet!) so i said how bloody presumptious that we'd ask the arse anyway he is revolting. Now she has said she is getting married this year!! I flipped I mean ffs his dad hasn't been dead that long!which caused me to ask if she liked wedding cake (she's been married a few times!!) or shall I just start to call her sonic lol think i scared FI so much he went v quiet I was livid.

I am dreading when she finds out because I will start to get the crap and unfortunately girls I have no tact, patience and cause I don't give a shite about her I will tell her exactly what I think of her and the arse she is marrying lol

Even my aunt said she is staying away from me before the wedding and that she is going to buy me boxing gloves to save me from breaking my hands on the soon to be inlaws lol

Phew that feels better!!

oh AND that is lovely that you're paying for family to go over you must be really close. I'm paying for no-one in the hope they DONT go lmao

i am in tears at my desk at work right now because i just found an ad on craigslist that my FI posted to sell his drum set which i asked him explicitly NOT to sell. his boss demanded that he remove it from his office basement and my FI doesnt want it to sit in storage "taunting him" but he LOVES this drum set. anyway, the ad says some mean stuff about having "a demanding fiancee" and that he "needs to pay for my fiancee's dream wedding, sell out, hand over my nuts and resign to a life of blister-less hands (well, maybe except for my jacking-off hand once i get married)."

what do i do?

i told him many many times, that i dont want to spend more than we have, go into debt or have to sell anything to afford our honeymoon.

He really wrote that Maura? Or did someone else as a joke? I don't even know what to say. I'm so hurt for you.

Awwww Maura...I can see why you're upset. If it helps any, my DH did a similar thing w/ the wording on some stuff he sold on ebay. Actually, he writes up some "sob story" like that every time he needs to sell something. His thinking is that it gives the buyer a reason that a guy would be selling a perfectly good "whatever" and makes it more relatable etc. usually it's something like, "My wife says she's tired of xx item taking up space in the house...either it goes or I go." It's total BS...and honestly, the ONE thing I'm always nagging at him to get rid of is the the ONE thing he hasn't sold yet! loL!! Ah, the irony.

I know there are a lot more reasons that you're upset about this...but hopefully my little story helps a little with the ad-wording that's bothering you. I think it's just a bunch of bs that he wrote to garner sympathy and maybe drive up the selling price a bit. ;-)