Best Man Vent

I cant beleive how frustrated I am by the best man in our wedding. Every time we ask him to do anything for the wedding he bitches at Robin for picking him as the best man and says he doesnt want to help. He refuses to help with the Buck and Doe because "thats for girls to do" and he only wants to plan the bachelor party. The GM, BM and FI went tux shopping on Sunday and all he did was bitch about the price and about being in the wedding. I keep telling Robin to just tell him to f-off and not be in the wedding, but he thinks Im making too much out of it. Well, sorry its my day and all the BM can do is try and ruin it! My feelings are so hurt and I am really worried that he is going to ruin my day. I can see him not writing a speach, and he already said hes just gonna get drunk the whole time! I dont know what to do or what to say to Robin about this. I am one of the most easy going brides, but this is the one thing I am being bridezilla about. I couldnt even sleep last night because I kept worrying!!

Wow he is totally out of line and you are entitled to be bridezilla on this issue!

Is he normally like this, or is this our of character?

Oh Laura, I'm so sorry to hear that. I agree with Carly, tell him to shove it!

What a dink...I'd kick his ass out of the wedding!

Usually we get along pretty well. Ive known him since I was 14, so about 11 years and hes always been pretty nice (he has his moments) but this wedding thing has just made him a total asshole! I just dont know what to say to Robin about it because he really wants him as the bestman.

Thats a sin and totally not fair for you. Next time he says anything negative, say something right back! Like "You dont have to be a part of our wedding if everything's such a hassle." Or "If I woulda known you'd be such a bitch I would have asked you to be a bridesmaid" (not meanig your bm are bitches but just that he's acting like a girl! For real, F that. That is not fair at all that you are even upset about him.

Maybe ask Robin to sit down and have a talk with him about his attitude? You have enough on your plate trying to plan a wedding, you don't need to deal with his negative ass too!

Im going to try and talk to Robin about it tonight and see if we can figure this out. Honestly, Id rather Robin not have a best man and just keep his one GM instead of this guy.