On the verge of a melt down,

i totally second what kash said...you have been such a great friend to all of us...and we are here to listen and support you...vent away!!

 

if i were closer, i would take marty out for a night just to get her out of your hair.

Hmm Sarah were are you,, I think since you live close then it's on you.. ROFL..

You want to come visit me in LA? We have a futon! It would be lots of fun!!!

 

We can go get mani/pedis (these are really cheap here), eat delicious food, enjoy the warm weather...

Hey Tammy, really late to reply but wanted to give my support also. Hang in there, and yes, take a breather from the wedding. Enjoy Christmas and make the limited time you spend with Cain, quality!!!

You poor thing!

 

You can ship her out to Seattle if you need to. In fact, put her on a train ride out here - it will take longer. And I'm really good at being rude to people when I need to be.

Hey Tammy - I'll trade your FMIL for my F-step son.... (when I read the F in my head does not stand for future!!)

I SOOOOO know what your talking about Christa..

Kash I miss California, I lived there for 4 years and I miss it SO much. Course I lived in a small town called Lemoore (does anyone know if it) it's about 45 mintues away from Fresno. My Ex was in the service and he was stationed there. I would go there in a heart beat but you would have to kick me out because I wouldn't want to leave.. :-)

Such great advice from everyone. Hang in there!

******UPDATE*******

 

You girls would be so proud of me, I made dinner last night and when it was done I told Marty if she was hungry I had dinner ready. She has been eating cereal for the past week and a half at night.. So she came down and we ate dinner together, the B*tch still didn't say she was sorry for what she said, at this point I don't think that is ever going to happen. Cain's lucky I love him so much because it about killed me last night asking her to eat dinner...