Potential to turn out bad! Need advice

meldal101010, Awesome!!!

JanineA, Looks like you have it sorted out. That's great. I did not think you are being selfish either.

My son will be 15 months when we get married. I have no clue how it is going to be. I did not think about it until I read your thread. I'll have to come up with something

This is a hard one... but althought I would love an adult-only wedding, I can't force my brother and his wife to leave his 2-year old at home... Same thing with one of my bridesmaid who has 2 little guys. It just wouldn't be fair to them! Plus, I think some of them risk not coming at all if they can't bring their kids.

I tried to have an adult only wedding but FI insisted on me bringing the kids.  My son who is 3 now will probably be a bigger handful than all the other children put together.  Now, his daughters maybe coming with two young babies.  They live in Europe so they are not sure if they can make it.  My daughter has a young baby and now he tells me his niece that he wants to sing has a young baby too.  I told him that the WC is going to charge us for all of these babies because I told her three babies and now we have 6. lol!  I forgot my former MOH who said that she wasn't coming so I picked someone else has a baby as well.  Now she says that she may be coming as well.  I'm getting nervous.  He says that I shouldn't worry because everything will be fine.  I'm trying to find as much activities as possible to keep them busy during the ceremony.