Bridesmaids Dropping by the Day

ajncooter · August 11, 2007

im so sorry.. we are having the same problems.. its amazing when you are in the beginning everyone is so excited to go and then when deposits are due everyone backs out yuck!

Jackie · August 11, 2007

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Originally Posted by ajncooter

im so sorry.. we are having the same problems.. its amazing when you are in the beginning everyone is so excited to go and then when deposits are due everyone backs out yuck!

You couldnt have said it better. For those of you allready married you know this is all to true and for those of us still planning our weddings.....try and keep this in mind, it seems to happen to every single bride on here.

JABride · August 12, 2007

like everyone here, I totally feel your pain ... you really don't need this additional stress so close to your wedding ... I would love to have my closest friends in my wedding party but I chose people in my immediate family as maids ... still, it doesn't guarantee that they won't bail on me but I think that in my case, I have more chances of friends bailing on me than the immediate family ...

I am also hearing from guests "of course I will come ... I will not miss it for the world" ... blablabla ... and this is coming from people that I know right now are not financially stable .. since we are 8 months away, I just let them talk but I am not keeping my hopes up ... we will see when the time comes for them to put money where their mouths are ...

Any way it goes, try to think of it that way: this whole wedding is truly only about the two of you and that's the only thing that should really matter ... don't let what I call "external factors" take you away from enjoying YOUR day with your fiance ...

good luck !!!