Are Pashminas and Fans for Women Only?

For those of you who are giving pashminas in your OOT bags and/or giving fans as favors (i.e. placing them on ceremony chairs), do you plan to give one to everyone? Am I wrong to think that either are for women only?

I was thinking that I would give pashminas in OOT bags, but only for women guests (?) What would I give to men then? A beach towel?

And then as far as favors, I want to do either sandalwood or asian silk fans...I just can't see my male guests fanning themselves with these LOL! so should I put fans on every other seat?

What are you ladies doing?

Hey, we're also doing fans and pashminas for women only. For men we're getting cigars and I don't know what else yet. Honestly, it's usually the women who even care about favors and remember to bring them home. Men will be happy with cigars and maybe those little travel size tequila bottles or something.

Good idea. I was thinking about giving the fellas rum...but my girls would want some rum too ;-) But you're right, I don't think the guys would care either way...so long as the ladies are happy, the wedding'll be a hit!!

I am putting fans on all the chairs, Pashminas in the oot for the women and personalized golf balls with our name and wedding date in oot for the men

Great ideas! I am putting fans on all of the chairs, but would like to do pashminas for the women. Where did you get yours?

I'm actually ordered one from a vendor on ebay to see the quality before I get more. For cashmere pashminas, they are $1.19 each plus $4 shipping. The reviews are great, but I'm waiting to see for myself.

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Definitely think everyone should have a fan! We're planning on putting them on the chairs for the ceremony. As for favours, were giving Pashminas at our reception to the ladies and Cigars to the guys.

Thanks! I will check out both places!

I'm also placing the fans on all of the ceremony chairs.

The pashminas will be on the table, Im getting them for the girls only.

On the same table with the pashminas will be our favors which will be Rum, shot glasses, and maybe cigars. So everyone is happy.