Forum Maintenance 1/31/2010: feedback please

Trouble logging in today - entered username & password and spent looong time with thank you for logging in screen before finally ended with this error (in Google Chrome):

This webpage is not available.

The webpage at http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/ might be temporarily down or it may have moved permanently to a new web address.

Refreshed the page and it did load.

I am still having major trouble with the site, it constantly times out. Or the website won't even load after I sign in. My posts are constantly double posted even though I only press the submit button once. It takes about 5 minutes to cycle between post pages. When are these issues going to be fixed this has been happening for two weeks now.

Jessica, Tammy and Steve (Tammy's DH) have been working very hard during their free time to get this forum up and running issue-free as fast as possible. They have had to continuously upgrade the servers to accomodate the growing number of members and posts. Please be patient.

Things are much slower today than they have been the past couple of days. Lots of timing out, etc.

Thanks for upgrading BDW, Tammy and Steve! All of its loyal participants are grateful.

Took 5 minutes just to load this feedback page... and that was after it timed out the first time.

I hope this will be fixed soon because I'm finding that I don't want to post or even visit very much as a result of the problems with double posts, time outs, or just taking too long to simply get logged onto BDW.

yeah... and ... again double post...

still getting timed out, and double posts, and slow downloads of pages.

Just to be clear, you do realize that Tammy runs this FREE forum out of her own pocket, correct? I'm just surprised at the lack of understanding or appreciation shown by some of our members.

Don't get me wrong, this thread should contain a list of the problems that everyone is encountering, but the attitude that some are showing is a little ridiculous, in my opinion.

I agree with Carly. This thread is meant to be an area to report issues to those that are responsibile for resolving them and for those people to communicate the status to the members. If you feel so angered about how the forum is working, I suggest to find another forum in which to participate.