MOH who says shes coming but still no response..

Just my thoughts here... you have started a new and wonderful chapter in your life and sometimes when one door opens another closes. I really don't think your friend had put her heart around where you are right now in your lif and what you needed from her... damn straight answer would have covered it... If she said up front.. Love you but just can not do this at this time!!! you would have been disappointed but moved on. Instead she needed to get the whole feel of "oh she really wants me to go and if I leave it last minute, it'll be about how hard I tried and I didn't quit trying to come until the last minute when i knew it was impossible... It became about her and her struggle to get things together and come to your wedding...
Amagine you could have choose this same person to be godparent to you future child.... yeah sweetie let that door close, open the new door to your life...

that is EXACTLY what she did!!! all about her! whatever..... i wanted to tell her off but just decided to just not speak with her anymore...