Wow, this is starting to feel real...

Kelly I cant believe your big day is coming so quickly, I can only imagine what you must be feeling right now. I am sure that everything will go wonderfully. You are marrying the man of your dreams really soon!!

it's good to hear that us "2nd time around brides" get those butterflies again! i have no doubt in my mind that i want to marry jason. but i can empathize with you about the nervousness! failing at my first marriage is something i think about often, especially since i have my daughter. but i know i made the right decision in ending that marriage for everyone involved.

butterflies are good! even though my wedding 9 months away - i get them from time to time! but i also think it's part of the excitement of it all!

congrats to you!!!

Yet another married for the second time girl here. I was scared to get married but for reasons not like are mentioned above. I was scared that by marrying Cain I would one day, might be faced with loosing him (from passing away of something) and I can't even imagine what that is going to feel like, It still scares me today, but now I'm just trying to enjoy everyday with him as it comes.

Awe Kelly, I am sorry you are missing your Dad so much today. I feel like my Dad is also the wisest man I know and I often think that if he were gone I would be completely lost at times. This is a great reminder to not take the people in your life for granted. They all play a very special role. (Hope that didn't make you more sad...)

On a happier note I'm glad you have another amazing, strong man in your life who is there to love and support you. CONGRATULATIONS Mrs. E!

Awww, that brought tears to my eyes. I am sorry that you are having a rough day, Kelly. It is def hard when major things happen in our life after someone important has passed away. A very close friend passed away in high school and I still think, "I wonder what Chuck would think of this?" So I totally understand and I know there is nothing to be said to change it, so jsut stay strong. Good luck to you, Everton and your family!

you made my eyes filled up......so happy for you and husband....thats must sound great....your dad will always be by your side.....always....much love and happiness.....

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Originally Posted by Just Martha   I am also getting married for the second time. It IS scary. Jay knows EVERYTHING about me and has never judged me and has supported me in all my dreams for almost 3 years. I never doubt I want to marry him....I just second guess myself that I will be a good wife. I am the one that left my first husband...which is something I never thought I would do. I have to give myself more credit and have faith in myself that Jay is THE one for me.   You only have a few weeks left!!!!

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Originally Posted by akh I too was married for the 2nd time to Paul. It is soooo different from the first time. The first time you're caught up in all the "wedding drama" and stuff that comes with it. The 2nd time ... you know what it really means, what you're really doing. Not that i didn't the first time, I did, I just, well, I guess I wasn't ready. I too blame myself for the failure of my 1st marriage. that's a lot of weight to bear. i know that i am happy now, as is my ex, so i tell myself it's all for the better. but the "what ifs" are always there!   all i can do is love paul as best I can, and do everything in my power to make this work. and i will. and so will you. things do happen for a reason. you're where you should be now. be thankful for that!   and you can talk to us at any time, about anything!

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Originally Posted by gracefulsteph it's good to hear that us "2nd time around brides" get those butterflies again! i have no doubt in my mind that i want to marry jason. but i can empathize with you about the nervousness! failing at my first marriage is something i think about often, especially since i have my daughter. but i know i made the right decision in ending that marriage for everyone involved.   butterflies are good! even though my wedding 9 months away - i get them from time to time! but i also think it's part of the excitement of it all!   congrats to you!!!

Thanks girls, it makes me feel better knowing that all of you have times that you felt the same way, it realy does feel the stakes are higher the second time around, doesn't it! I guess flutterby's are normal, so I will try to embrace them, LOL. Thanks for the responses because as I was writing, I was thinking ohhh, no one talks out loud about their fears of marriage, just about the happiness, so it was a relief to know that you girls got it, understood, and knew all the right things to say you girls (you too Jason, who offered his own words of wisdom to me) are the BEST, I don't care if no one gets my passion for you guys, I am happy I found all of you

Girls thanks for the nice words about my dad, he would have thought this forum hillarious and teased me like crazy, but he would be happy to know that I have (in such an unexpected place) found so many great friends

Tammy, I think your fear is a testament to how much you love Cain. You are right you can't live your life worrying about losing someone you love, you would miss out on so much. I am glad you worked through your fears so you were able to marry Cain. If one day you and Cain decide children are in your future, you will make a great mom, to have that much love inside of you is a great gift.

Wow that was alot of group hugging, I feel much better now

Kelly~

Kelly, your day is coming up so quick! You're going to be a fantastic wife and you're already a fantastic mother, you have nothing to worry about, just take it day by day, you know you love E, everything will be wonderful!

I can't imagine how much you must miss your dad. I'm so close to my dad and I give myself anxiety sometimes thinking about what I will do without him, I don't know how I'll get through it. Even though you won't see him there on your wedding day, you know he will be watching over you & your family ever second of your wedding day and smiling down on you.