Opinion's Desperatly Needed!

[-Kate-]

I'm super late the convo but I say #2 also. It'd be nice to have someone to talk with about what happened at the wedding besides your new husband. More people to share the memories.

 

And the whole vacation thing is bonkers! Hopefully things will get better for him in January.

[Jackie]

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Originally Posted by LALA I'm super late the convo but I say #2 also. It'd be nice to have someone to talk with about what happened at the wedding besides your new husband. More people to share the memories. And the whole vacation thing is bonkers! Hopefully things will get better for him in January.

Thanks, yah I cant believe not one girl has picked #1. I guess I was crazy for even thinking of it. You just see some of the ladies around here putting up with a lot of unwanted stress because their guests cant commit when they said they could to begin with. If we keep it small to our 10-12 dearest fam and friends who we know are definitly comming than at least we will not be dealling with that stress and also have them there to share the experience.

I'm so glad I posted this poll. It definitly cleared my head and made the decision a pretty clear one. Thanks everyone.

[TammyB]

Jackie, do what's in your heart. Cain and I would get married alone in Cabo if no one would come. It's important to us as a couple to be married there. If you and Ryan feel you want it to be a special thing that only the two of you share (maybe have your parents as a witness) then do it.

[Jackie]

Good Morning TammyM,

I really think I do want a SMALL wedding. I was just getting nervous with all the stress everyone is going through with their guests, and thought screw that lets just have a stressfree private romantic weddingmoon instead. But after reading all the nice replies, I do think that dealling with a little stress might be worth having a few of our friends/fam there.

[EDYTA]

Jackie, I said 2 also just because there would be no way that I could go alone because people would start coming even if they weren't invited...as for me I am having a very small wedding just my parents and close friends but I think the only person that I really want there would be my mon cause she's the one that has been doing everything with me to prepare for the wedding...

 

but...

 

one of my friends got married in St.Lucia and it was just her and her husband....they ended up having a reception when they got home and had a video playing of their ceremony at the reception, it was beautiful...

 

she told me she had the best time ever and wouldn't of changed it, so Im saying that if you were considering it I dont think you would regret it but do what's right for you what ever will make you happy

[TammyB]

Jackie we all complain about the planning process, just keep things simple (it's so easy to go over board) and it will totally be worth it in the end.

[Jackie]

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Originally Posted by EDYTA Jackie, I said 2 also just because there would be no way that I could go alone because people would start coming even if they weren't invited...as for me I am having a very small wedding just my parents and close friends but I think the only person that I really want there would be my mon cause she's the one that has been doing everything with me to prepare for the wedding... but... one of my friends got married in St.Lucia and it was just her and her husband....they ended up having a reception when they got home and had a video playing of their ceremony at the reception, it was beautiful... she told me she had the best time ever and wouldn't of changed it, so Im saying that if you were considering it I dont think you would regret it but do what's right for you what ever will make you happy

Thanks Edyta . I think Ryans mom would probably invite herself if we had it just the two of us anyway. She is super cool, but Im not sure how I would feel about Ryan Me and his MOM on our private romantic weddingmoon. lol

[EDYTA]

lol what you talking bout it would be fantastic, she can be ur personal photographer that way u dont have to pay for one...lol

 

j/k

[TammyB]

Welcome to my life Jackie.. LOL...

 

BTW, (off topic) Cain's Ma was talking to her dad last night and he got made at her for buying a condo, he said she should just continue to stay with us.. **eyes popping out of my head** I looked at her and said "umm no"

[Jackie]

Tammy

I didnt even realize she had purchased a condo. Thats great. UM what is her dad thinking. I'm sure he would change his tune, If she was living with him. Its so easy for people to say stuff like that when they arent in the situation.

So have you already started packing her stuff for her or what. lol