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[RivieraBride15]

Jealousy can be such a hateful thing and it's even worse when it's during the happiest times of our lives.  When we got engaged, my sister commented on FB with her "congrats".  Once she found out that it was going to be a destination wedding, she told my mom that she will not be attending since she won't leave the country. I've been engaged now for 9 months with the wedding 3 months away and she has NEVER asked about the wedding.  I have sent pics of things I have bought to try and keep her in the loop since she won't be there, but there is no enthusiasm at all...I have given up.  I feel it's all a jealousy thing...but my feelings are, if you aren't happy with your life and the way it's going...only you can change that.

 

My brother (and my best friend) passed away in February so I will be missing him at the wedding, my sister isn't going, and now I guess my father isn't going either. I let myself have one poor me day about it all...and I've since snapped out of it.  Wedding is 96 days away (who is counting lol) and I am back to being on cloud 9.  I can't and won't let anyone's negativity or jealousy put any kind of damper on my day!

 

Easier said than done sometimes...but try to put aside the jealousy...don't let anyone rain on your parade!!

 

[calgarybride2015]

@@RivieraBride15

I am soooo sorry to hear about your brother. What a tough thing to go thru. Hugs.

 

I think it must sting a bit more when it's your family member, especially a sister. So I want to applaud you for being able to move past it.

 

96 days will fly by!

 

 

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[deecol]

@@RivieraBride15 I'm so sorry to hear about everything.  My condolences.

 

You sound like one tough cookie!  You deserve so much happiness and I'm sure it will come in leaps and bounds on your wedding day!

 

All the best!  xo

Edited July 24, 2015 by deecol

[mandy88ca]

My condolences.

Edited November 15, 2019 by mandy88ca