Not Invited To Church Friends Wedding

jashley12 · June 25, 2015

I am pretty sure I am not invited to a church friends wedding that Ive known for years because she deleted me on Facebook and I had a falling out with her sister where she yelled at me for wanting to crash this other mutual friends wedding years ago. Would it be rude to just ask why Im not invited to make sure it wasn't because of the thing with her sister and me wanting to crash this persons wedding years ago? I asked her why she deleted me on Facebook and she said shes only keeping people she talks to regularly, this was several months before she got engaged.

TinkerSofi · June 26, 2015

I really don't want to sound mean, and please know that this is coming from the best place, but I feel like I have to be honest. If she deleted you on facebook she probably considers that you guys don't really talk that much. Unfortunately friendships change and even if you've known someone for years, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're close friends or that you should be invited to their wedding. I wouldn't take it as anything personal. When it comes to weddings the bride and groom have to make choices as to who to invite and unfortunately some people are left out, usually due to costs. If you haven't talked to her in months or close to a year I don't think she's in the wrong here. I'm sorry, I know it is disappointing. You can always ask her why, as of course I'm only guessing about her reasons, but just be prepared if you get that answer.