What's The Etiquette For People Who Declined Before The Invitations?

[hellosassypants]

Thanks for the wonderful responses! I will definitely keep that in mind. We just got our family/engagement photos back so I can't wait to use them on our wedding invitations. I know some people will appreciate it even if they cannot attend. 

[helenk]

I was wondering the same thing....now I think I'll be sending them even to those who have already said they can't make it. I know how emotional people get around weddings, so to avoid any drama - I'll just send them out   I designed my own invitation anyway and the cost to print is way less than the headache it will cause if people's feelings get hurt.