Best Friend - MOH wrong pick :(

[stefadile]

Same with me; my MOH is my sister but she’s a surgical resident at a busy hospital a couple hours away from me. She barely has time to eat and sleep much less help me with wedding planning! My bridesmaid (SIL) is much closer and I’m leaning on her more for all the little details.

 

That being said, my MOH has put the time aside and shown up for the few important things I wanted her to be there for, like giving final approval for both my wedding dresses. I don’t expect her to do anything else except maybe a Bollywood dance at the Indian AHR.

Same here, my MOH has turned up for dress shopping, bm dress shopping, and is always there to take a call... we just might get interrupted with Mummy duties though:-D I've gotten used to it :-) Edited June 11, 2014 by stefadile

[JaxBchKay]

I wish I had waited longer to ask anyone to be my wedding, I have a Maid of Honor and a Matron of Honor. I love them both but they each have asked me which one will be standing closest to me. So I keep putting them off since I don't want to decide! I also am including my daughter and my FI daughter, they are too old to be flower girls so they are bridesmaids and then I got excited at the beginning and asked two more friends to be bridesmaids. Now my FI is only having 3 guys and we decided on a smaller wedding than I originally thought. I want to drop the two friend bridesmaids but have no idea how to do it without hurting feelings and I have to find a way for everyone to stand so both honor attendants are equally close to me! I really wish I could just start over with the whole thing..

[Meandhim]

I decided to not have a MOH...I haven't actually asked anyone yet... I'm waiting for people to book first then I'll ask them.. But I'm asking my only female cousin, my best Childhood friend, my best friend from high school , and my best friend now, we all live in different cities so no one is here to help me but each of them are very special to me... And even though I haven't even asked them yet they are all ready planning my bachelorette!

 

 

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[marinah84]

My sister is my moh, but I don't expect my wedding party to plan/help much? She's due with her 2nd in august, and already had preterm labor so the last thing she needs is stress! My Sil is helping pin things on pinterest which has helped, but I'm mostly doing it myself

[SuchALady777]

I have 2 Maids of honor and 1 man 9 honor. No one it more important than the other. And they all have been super supportive except one but she's planning her own wedding and can't be there as much which is fine with me