HELP! How do I choose the resort?!

[Jennkn87]

Hello! I am new to the planning of the destination wedding. I've always known I've wanted a destination wedding on a beach. I have recently been trying to narrow down locations. I decided first on Florida or South Carolina, then decided I would rather go farther south. I then turned towards the US Virgin Islands (mainly so my guests would not HAVE to have a passport). I now am leaning towards having our wedding in Jamaica. I then started looking through different resorts and their package deals. I thought at first I would love to go through Sandals for the wedding and honeymoon, then of course read a few bad reviews. I originally was thinking Negril, due to all reviews saying they have the best beaches. However, I didn't know that it was an hour and a half from the airport. From previous vacation experiences, I hate a long drive to get to your destination after all the plane traveling, so I'm thinking I would make it better on myself, as well as all of the guests and have it closer to the airport. Montego bay is the only airports correct? I feel like I've been researching for hours and hours and hours already, and keep changing my mind. I would GREATLY appreciate anyones   suggestions on how to decide on the destination and resort. I am hoping to keep the costs down for my guests, and I also do not want to spend TONS of money for the wedding due to we will also be having a reception when we return home. This is Stressful already! Your opinions and help are GREATLY appreciated!! Thanks in advance!