Sad News...

[Sarah]

Wow Shelley, that is such a difficult decision to make, and I'm sure not one that has been made lightly. I'm glad you and Amos are able to talk through your feelings and reach a solution that is mutually agreeable. Please let us know how we can help you through this time.

 

[cessyboston]

miss shelly.....i know that you have made the right descision for you both im syre that was not easy for him nor for you but i know your next step will be the right one....so strong of both of you and your love is so strong head up girl you will be o.k. you are walking together......so everything will be o.k. we are all here if you need us please dont leave this site we all need you here....big hugs.....

[boscobel]

Shelley, I am so sorry that happened to you, but I think you are doing the right thing. If Amos wasn't comfortable with the way it was working out, if was great that you support him. Let me know if there is anything I can do.

[Nrvsbride]

Shelley I am so sorry that this happened, especially so close to the day of your wedding. I know this won't make you feel better but I went through the same thing and postponed my wedding. Granted mine's wasn't going to be until next July but I couldn't go forward with it knowing that FI's family wouldn't come. It's been hard but I know that I will find the perfect place for us to get married and I have no doubt that you will too. If you need anyone to talk to I am here for you.

[Jessica]

I'm so sorry!

 

I am however really glad you're not pushing him. Seriously, you should be proud of yourself for that. It shows you are ready to be married and realize marriage is a committment and involves compromise. I think so many girls push and push their guys to walk down the aisle when they want and don't realize they are setting themselves up for failure. You both need to feel ready before taking those vows.

 

That said, it does suck that things are going to be delayed, but who knows, you may love your alternative plans a whole lot more! I'm sure you guys will figure something out.

 

Family can be a pain in the butt sometimes, but I'm glad you understand it's important to Amos to have his be there.

[Yari]

I am so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how hard of a decision this must have been for you and Amos.

 

We are all here for you!

[lovefreddy]

I am so sorry to hear your news. But I commend you for making the decision that is best for you and your fiance. Whatever type of wedding you have will be beautiful and will be worth the wait.

[royfa]

I feel so sorry for you! Don't worry I'm sure you will have the wedding of your dreams no matter what!

[JaimeLynne]

Wow, that is surprising news! Do you think you're going to do a wedding at home now? Are y'all going to skip going away for now all together or do you think you'll still use it as a vacation? You are so strong, and a great example of what a marriage is. It's not about the wedding but about the commitment we are each making to our nearest and dearest. He is lucky to have you!

[chicago88]

Shelly - I'm really sorry to hear this. Like a lot of the other girls said, I think it is a good decision for the 2 of you. You will still have a fabulous wedding!! Talk care...