Any NYC brides?

[MrsTobeD]

I read of all the people having an AHR for people that did not attend the DW, first of all, the reason for a DW is not to spend a fortune and have something more intimate and fun for everyone, and second, if you couldn't make an effort, having 18 months notice to attend my wedding, why will I make an effort to celebrate with you? No thank you!

 

~ Did I sounded bridezillaish?  

Originally Posted by MissJali 

I honestly don't think I'm doing an AHR my whole reason for a dw was to save money and cut the guest list lol

[MissJali]

Originally Posted by MrsTobeD 

 

I read of all the people having an AHR for people that did not attend the DW, first of all, the reason for a DW is not to spend a fortune and have something more intimate and fun for everyone, and second, if you couldn't make an effort, having 18 months notice to attend my wedding, why will I make an effort to celebrate with you? No thank you!

 

~ Did I sounded bridezillaish?  

no we're on the same page! I don't want to give people an "out" lol

[evbaez]

Originally Posted by MissJali 

 

no we're on the same page! I don't want to give people an "out" lol

 

Originally Posted by MrsTobeD 

 

I read of all the people having an AHR for people that did not attend the DW, first of all, the reason for a DW is not to spend a fortune and have something more intimate and fun for everyone, and second, if you couldn't make an effort, having 18 months notice to attend my wedding, why will I make an effort to celebrate with you? No thank you!

 

~ Did I sounded bridezillaish?  

i agree with you ladies. My fI dad brought that up and i was not happy at all. I gave my guests more then enough time to save and decide if they will be going to our wedding. My reason for a DW is to keep it intimate and thats my plan. Sorry to say but if they cant make it then they cant make it. 

[MrsTobeD]

Dont be sorry, that is the WTG

Originally Posted by evbaez 

 

i agree with you ladies. My fI dad brought that up and i was not happy at all. I gave my guests more then enough time to save and decide if they will be going to our wedding. My reason for a DW is to keep it intimate and thats my plan. Sorry to say but if they cant make it then they cant make it. 

[MrsPeele2B]

Hey ladies!!! Long Island Destination Wedding bride to be here. Any Long Island Brides here?? I'd love to get together and dish about wedding stuff.

[myyooths]

Another NYC bride in the house! I'm Dominican and my FI is Filipino so both sides of our families are huge!  My FI's uncle got married 2 years ago and they told us they spend well over $40,000!  (and they had a lot of DIY projects)  We can't afford that so we opted for a DW.  My FI loves Punta Cana and is fascinated with the all inclusive aspect of the resort LOL.  We love the ocean, the serenity and beauty that Punta Cana offers.  And DR is so much fun!  I live in Brooklyn ladies.  It would be fun to meet in person and exchange ideas.

[myyooths]

Nice, I see some fellow BBPD brides in the thread! Hi!

[MrsPeele2B]

Nice, I see some fellow BBPD brides in the thread! Hi!

Hey girl! We should definitely get together. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[SoonMrsD]

Originally Posted by myyooths 

 

Another NYC bride in the house! I'm Dominican and my FI is Filipino so both sides of our families are huge!  My FI's uncle got married 2 years ago and they told us they spend well over $40,000!  (and they had a lot of DIY projects)  We can't afford that so we opted for a DW.  My FI loves Punta Cana and is fascinated with the all inclusive aspect of the resort LOL.  We love the ocean, the serenity and beauty that Punta Cana offers.  And DR is so much fun!  I live in Brooklyn ladies.  It would be fun to meet in person and exchange ideas.

 

Good Luck Girly! I'm getting married in Sept at BBPD! Woooooo

[myyooths]

Originally Posted by SoonMrsD 

 

 

Good Luck Girly! I'm getting married in Sept at BBPD! Woooooo

 

Thanks SoonMrsD! Good luck to you too!