Uninvited Guest !!!!!venting!!!

[jolene028]

Well luckily we dont have to provide that until final payment is due... but none the less annoying!

 

And your right I am proud that I go to work, and I dont honestly care what she thinks, their relationship isnt the best anyways, and I can tell you ladies that if she doesnt get it together and get her passport and put on a happy face I dont think that there will be a relationship if she doesnt come! But only time will tell! We have 44 people booked to come and share our day, people that want to be there, (with the few that werent invited about 4 and actually I dont even know them but I've decided to make the best of it) and I will be happy with that!

[Melissa14]

Originally Posted by alexisinjamaica 

 

My FI has told me stories of what his friends did at other bachelor parties and none of it was good. All of these people were married or in serious relationships. He says he wishes he never told me because he "broke guy code." Too late!

 

Also, Melissa-- I wanted to take engagement pics at the LACMA light installation so I love your profile pic! Very cool!

 

 

 

My fiance broke the guy code too on TWO of his friend's bachelor parties...OH WELL!!!

 

LACMA is such a cool place and Thank you!

 

We are all in on this together ladies!

[Melissa14]

P.S. Mother In Laws SUCK!!!!

If anything this has taught me to treat my son's girlfriends then fiance and then WIFE with RESPECT gosh *****!!!

[Billandstina]

Oh girls...you're not helping my over-active brain with the whole Vegas bachelor party thing!! Lol

[Melissa14]

Try to convince him to have a combined party so you don't have to stress.

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[Billandstina]

I may have to...although technically between a new mortgage and a wedding plus Grad school loans a trip to Vegas doesn't need to be in either of our books!! Lol! Ohhhhh to win the lottery

[Cherina]

Hey ladies I have been reading your MIL and Bachlor party worries for a while word of advice. I have been married for 13 years we are having a renewal for #14. If you choose the joint Bachlor party route you will likely need to go beyond your comfort zone and make it more of a "guy" type BP. Make it wild crazy, find the craziest strippers you can find and you have fun too. I was giggling at your post because my husbands BFF got married and I was Mad about the BP when his friend said "wife's tripped" the hubby replies "yeah she's wants to come!l BFF said "to keep tabs on you ?" Hubby "naaw man to get a lap dance and make it rain!?!" BFF "wow! I could wish!" Turns out the girls were having a prayer party that night, and I didn't go, sorry I was not spending my time in Vegas w/o the kids at a prayer party! So I called my girls not with the wedding and we went out... Long story shore I ran into hubby and the guys, actually they ran into me... Lets say it was interesting. The rest of the night we all kicked it, too fun.

[Billandstina]

That's awesome! My FI manages a strip club and I can relax and party with the best of them...that's why it worries me what his friends will try and get him to do for his BP! He already has it pretty good! Lolol And congratulations on 14 years!

[Cherina]

Thanks, its been a journey ! That was my major mistake and it caused us trouble, I was we'll a prude and didn't trust his friends (and they earned it) but I had to trust him. Just make sure you have fun and don't stress.

[jolene028]

Luckily for me the only mention of a trip for the BP had been a golfing weekend, and the FI is a "serious" golfer so there won't be much boozing and partying if that happens... although I can't see myself getting away free and clear I am sure that there will be some sort of BP. Oh man I hadn't even really started thinking about it until now. Well I guess the plan will be to go out the same night to kwwp myself busy! I havn't and dont want to hear stories about them all I know is that they don't take pictures because then there is evidence, seriously this SUCKS!