Uninvited Guest !!!!!venting!!!

[Billandstina]

We need to start a BP support group! Lolol!

[jolene028]

Originally Posted by Billandstina 

 

We need to start a BP support group! Lolol!

LMAO that is a great idea!

[Kay6356]

Totally feel your pain, but with my own mother.  She HATES my father's family (his brothers and sisters, their spouses, just everyone) - not my problem.  She was expecting me not to invite them to my wedding when I am very close with all them.  After I told her they were invited and it was mine and FI choice as it is our wedding.  And after countless arguments about the topic.  She moved on to wanting to have two tables available for her friends she wants to invite, people I have never met! And FI and I are paying for our whole DW & AHR - with possibly some help from my father for a few things.  She has not offered any help in anyway-but has caused me nothing but headache's.  I just explain the same thing every time to her that it is our wedding and I don't want a bunch of people at my wedding I don't know and that we cannot afford two tables of HER guests.  I even budge and said she could invite a couple so she has someone to spend time with if she chooses to not interact with my other family members. AHHH

 

In the end, after much stress about it - FI has always been there to listen & comfort.  I don't let it bother me in one ear and out the other.  It is our wedding and we are doing what WE want for OUR wedding.

 

Good luck and be strong, try to explain to you FMIL - and hope she understands!

[Melissa14]

Ladies!!! Guess who hasn't RSVP'd yet

[Cherina]

The parents? Mine haven't !!! I'm so not happy about that

[Melissa14]

I just don't get it

[Cherina]

Is it parents??? It's so sad and frustrating.

[Melissa14]

Originally Posted by Cherina 

 

Is it parents??? It's so sad and frustrating.

 

Yup! The wonderful FMIL! Oh!!! And all her extra guests! My RSVP deadline was 3/1. I'm giving it another week and then I'm done.

[Cherina]

You are better than me! My deadline is my deadline period dot.

[Melissa14]

Giiiiirl! You have no idea how hard I'm trying to be nice... sigh