Undecided Bride - to say I DO or not

[Chayness120590]

Hi,

 

I am Chai, planning to get marry this January 30, 2013.

I've been with my fiance for two years, we've been through UPS and DOWNS 

(most of the time DOWNS)

Anyways, he been always asking me to marry him. 

Not in a traditional way but Civil wedding.

I didn't agree to that, in the first place I am still not sure if I want to get married.

He is now 27 and i am still 22 years old.

He maybe sure of what he is saying, or should i say he just get into the flow.

I am 3 months pregnant, and my parents ask him for his plan.

He says to marry me, but then it went to be too SOON.

I maybe excited but most of the time CONFUSED..

Will this marriage life be a success? or just another mistake.

I get the point of my parents, but in my own opinion, 

marriage should be PLANNED very well and there should NO SECOND THOUGHTS.

Can someone advice me what to do?

I am still not ready to marry, but I will be such a disgrace to my family if i end up 

pregnant and doesn't have a husband.

your opinion will be much appreciated.

 

Thanks,

Chai

 

[Moments That Matter]

Hi Chai + welcome to our BDW forum community I read your post and my thoughts are that if you read what you wrote in it, you will see that you've already answered your own question......

 

I wish you all the best and that you know you have all the strength + knowledge inside you to make the best possible decisions for YOU! 

Sending you wishes for the wonderful life you deserve!

 

There is great love for you all around

 

 

team MTM asst, Lynda