BM dress drama

[Sharonie]

This is YOUR day so you should put your foot down. You have been too nice to them and given them too many choices. I would suggest to give a few guidelines for them to adhere to: color, style, length, material, etc. or pick out just a few styles like others suggested and have every BM decide in two weeks.

[Can'tHardlyWait]

I wanted to let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses (with me picking out 2 colors to choose from and the fabric) but my bridesmaids shocked me by saying NO... very loudly I may add! I have 8 of them, and almost every one of them called me to let me know that they prefered to wear matching dresses. I checked with the other 2, and they said that they didn't want to be the "non-matching" ones... since you only have 2, I would agree with the other girls to give them 2 or 3 dress options. If they choose the cheapest ones, then so be it - atleast you know its a dress you can live with.