we lost the baby...

[LadyP]

my prayers are with you and reggie. i am so sorry for your lost. if there is anything i can do let me know

[REBECCA]

Oh Heidi,

I know you have heard this a million times since yesterday, but I am so sorry for your loss. Please dont let this discourage you. I know it is difficult to think that at the moment, but it will happen for you guys.

 

As you can see with all of the posts, you have an incredible support system on the forum, we are here for you.

[MikkiStreak]

What Makes A Mother?

I thought of you and closed my eyes
and prayed to God today
I asked "What makes a Mother?"
and I know I heard Him say

"A Mother has a baby"
This we know is true
"But, God, can you be a Mother
When your baby's not with you?"

"Yes, you can" He replied
With confidence in His voice
"I give many women babies
When they leave is not their choice

Some I send for a lifetime
And others for a day
And some I send to feel your womb
But there's no need to stay"

"I just don't understand this, God
I want my baby here"
He took a breath and cleared His throat
And then I saw a tear

"I wish that I could show you
What your child is doing today
If you could see your child smile
With other children and say

'We go to Earth to learn our lessons
Of love and life and fear
My Mommy loved me oh so much
I got to come straight here.

I feel so lucky to have a Mom
Who had so much love for me
I learned my lesson very quickly
My Mommy set me free

I miss my Mommy oh so much
But I visit her each day
When she goes to sleep
On her pillow's where I lay

I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
And whisper in her ear
Mommy, don't be sad today
I'm your baby and I'm here'

"So you see my dear sweet one
Your children are okay
Your babies are in My home
And this is where they'll stay

They'll wait for you with Me
Until our lesson is through
And on the day that you come home
They'll be at the gates for you

So now you see what makes a Mother
It's the feeling in your heart
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start

Though some on Earth may not realize
you are a Mother
Until their time is done
They'll be up here with Me one day
And know you're the best one!"

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[Sarah]

Oh Maria, that is beautiful. I'm crying...

[CourtneyV]

Oh Heidi, I'm so so sorry for you and Reggie. This is so unfair. We're here for you whenever you need us.

[Christine]

Maria, I couldn't even get through that without crying, that is beautiful.

[Spazz]

Maria, that is such a beautiful poem...thanks for posting!

[dragonfly]

Heidi, with sorrow in my heart, I am so sorry...

[NABUMBAH]

so sorry

[Sharonie]

Heidi, my heart goes out to you and Reggie! Be strong and know you WILL have beatufiful babies in the future. You will be in my prayers...