My wedding has been postponed for the 3rd time now :( I can't even start planning I am Losing Faith

[casontag]

I must say that I have felt similar. My fiancé could live forever without getting married. We have been together almost 15 years, lived together at least 10, we have two kids, and have been officially engaged for 5. Lol! Some men are just that way. Mine isn't very romantic or celebratory. Lol! Just a guys guy. I finally had a real sit down and told him I needed this for me and our family. The only part he is excited about is fishing in the keys. So my advice is have a good talk, and find something he wants to do. I picked 3 or 4 places before we decided on key west.

[Kay6356]

Hey girl. I'm sorry you have these feelings. I'm sure FI loves you very much if he proposed. When FI and I first got engaged we wondered how we were ever going to save for a wedding and a house and get anywhere. (as your you know this can be very stressful) anyways we decided to open up a free saving account and put $500/each into this account a month. We now have $10,000 saved for our wedding which is our budget for the destination wedding, AHR, attire -everything! So now it's just saving for a house from now until our January 2014 wedding. Trust me I know it seems impossible at times but you stay with it and work hard you and your FI will find a way to make it work. Xoxox