Any other 2014 brides here getting an early start?

[brownsugarbride]

Wait---hold up!  I don't mean to start anything, but I reread your post.  You mean this woman didn't ask you to be in her wedding, but she assumes that she's going to be in yours? Color me confused!

[MissJali]

Originally Posted by brownsugarbride 

 

On the bridesmaid you don't want: your FH probably just doesn't get that you don't share the same closeness with this woman that he does.  One thing I'm learning about this process is that it really does become more about what OTHER people want, than what you as the bride wants.   

 

 

Ha! I'm clearly way more indecisive than you,because I still don't have a venue!  I'm flying down next month (either with mom or FH) to make a final decision but I'm really leaning toward the Grand Coral Beach Club.  I'm not wedded to a date, but wanted to pick a date where my university colleagues would be done with the semester, if at all possible. 

Ha!!! I totally agree brownsugar!!! I've gotten so much crap about having a destination wedding  and i'm just like well that's what WE want. Unless you got $30k, you're willing to shell out on a NY wedding, I'm sorry we're not settling! 

[tyrebride2b2013]

That's exactly correct. He doesn't get it but he wants us to be just as close as they are.. .. Lol. It took me a long while before I was able to decide..atleast you are going on a site visit. I didn't do that. Where are you going is that Jamaica?

On the bridesmaid you don't want: your FH probably just doesn't get that you don't share the same closeness with this woman that he does.  One thing I'm learning about this process is that it really does become more about what OTHER people want, than what you as the bride wants.    Ha! I'm clearly way more indecisive than you,because I still don't have a venue!  I'm flying down next month (either with mom or FH) to make a final decision but I'm really leaning toward the Grand Coral Beach Club.  I'm not wedded to a date, but wanted to pick a date where my university colleagues would be done with the semester, if at all possible. 

[tyrebride2b2013]

Wait---hold up!  I don't mean to start anything, but I reread your post.  You mean this woman didn't ask you to be in her wedding, but she assumes that she's going to be in yours? Color me confused!

LMAO! You are absolutely correct. I was not asked to be in her wedding! ! Crazy right!

[brownsugarbride]

Originally Posted by tyrebride2b2013 

 

That's exactly correct. He doesn't get it but he wants us to be just as close as they are.. ..

 

Lol. It took me a long while before I was able to decide..atleast you are going on a site visit. I didn't do that. Where are you going is that Jamaica?

 

Grand Coral Beach Club is in Riviera Maya, Mexico.  I think it's such a beautiful location! Here are some pictures from Del Sol---although let's be honest, they seem be able to make any venue look amazing! LOL

[brownsugarbride]

Originally Posted by tyrebride2b2013 

 

 

LMAO! You are absolutely correct. I was not asked to be in her wedding! ! Crazy right!

 

Yeah, I would have been giving them all the O___o for that one! LOL

[tyrebride2b2013]

Sooooo true ladies everyone has an opinion or complaint but I don't see anyone offering any contribution

Ha!!! I totally agree brownsugar!!! I've gotten so much crap about having a destination wedding  and i'm just like well that's what WE want. Unless you got $30k, you're willing to shell out on a NY wedding, I'm sorry we're not settling! 

[tyrebride2b2013]

Your right. I saw their work before its phenomenal was sad when saw where they were no where near my location. Almost wanted to change locations based on how beautiful they made things look. Will you be using them?

Grand Coral Beach Club is in Riviera Maya, Mexico.  I think it's such a beautiful location! Here are some pictures from Del Sol---although let's be honest, they seem be able to make any venue look amazing! LOL

[tyrebride2b2013]

Grand Coral looks beautiful. .would your ceremony be on beach?

Grand Coral Beach Club is in Riviera Maya, Mexico.  I think it's such a beautiful location! Here are some pictures from Del Sol---although let's be honest, they seem be able to make any venue look amazing! LOL

[tyrebride2b2013]

Lol. I know I tend to be tooo nice at times. . ote name="brownsugarbride" url="/t/80997/any-other-2014-brides-here-getting-an-early-start/750#post_1916484"] Yeah, I would have been giving them all the O___o for that one! LOL