Any other 2014 brides here getting an early start?

[Cherina]

Hey Moodyc82 do you mind sharing your TA info. I've been debating on using one but I think I want to work with one and decrease my responsibility with this part of the planning. Thanks!

A good TA makes all the difference! I am a TA and I have one because I don't want to deal with the monetary side as it relates to my family, I avoid family politics. :-)

[moodyc82]

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[moodyc82]

Originally Posted by Cherina 

 

 

 

 

A good TA makes all the difference! I am a TA and I have one because I don't want to deal with the monetary side as it relates to my family, I avoid family politics. :-)

 

EXACTLY!!! I don't want to worry about any of that stuff.

[Cherina]

EXACTLY!!! I don't want to worry about any of that stuff.

For me I love being a DW designer and TA but the idea of personal and family politics leave me dizzy. As a bride I want to relax and not worry about anything, but my brides and their weddings. I so could not do my own! I think OCD would kick in.

[moodyc82]

What's everyone's plans for an AHR???

[MrsShoreytobe]

Originally Posted by moodyc82 

 

What's everyone's plans for an AHR???

 We've had a small convo about it a while back but have no clue lol....We don't even have an idea for honeymooning yet lol! 

[moodyc82]

Originally Posted by MrsShoreytobe 

 

 We've had a small convo about it a while back but have no clue lol....We don't even have an idea for honeymooning yet lol! 

We're honeymooning at the same place to make it easier.....we've kind of discussed the AHR but he said after the holidays we'll evaluate it.....I feel like we can't wait that long.....I wish we had a yard to have a party in, but we don't

[MrsShoreytobe]

Originally Posted by moodyc82 

 

We're honeymooning at the same place to make it easier.....we've kind of discussed the AHR but he said after the holidays we'll evaluate it.....I feel like we can't wait that long.....I wish we had a yard to have a party in, but we don't

agreed! I just find it silly to be spending more money after the wedding too. If we could just rent a "hall" and get food brought in for cheap, that would be idea. We will not be doing a full dinner I know that much! For the amt of people that will likely come, no way haha! Just apps. 

[moodyc82]

Originally Posted by MrsShoreytobe 

 

agreed! I just find it silly to be spending more money after the wedding too. If we could just rent a "hall" and get food brought in for cheap, that would be idea. We will not be doing a full dinner I know that much! For the amt of people that will likely come, no way haha! Just apps. 

My future MIL wanted a big AHR and we told her unless she's paying for it were doing what we can afford.....so crazy to even think about it at this point

[evbaez]

Originally Posted by moodyc82 

 

What's everyone's plans for an AHR???

My FIL wants us to have one after we come back from the wedding. I told my fiance "not happening". My FIL's  reasoning is that not everyone that has been invited to the wedding will be able to attend. Which i understand, but i dont want to spend more money after our DW. Unless they are paying for the AHR, we willl not be having one.