Nervous Negril Newbie!!

paradisein757 · May 6, 2012

Hi everybody! I plan on having a small, private, ceremony with just my fiance' and I in Negril Jamaica the first week of September. I have never even been to Jamaica, so planning an "elopement" there is just nerve wrecking. I am very anxious about sending money to people in another country to secure dates, services, etc. I will l be sending less than $1000 to get everything I want so that's not bad at all, I just don't want to get there and NOTHING is what it seems or things just don't happen. I am dealing with Elegant Jamaica Weddings and Dawn seems to be pretty nice thus far. I see a few other ladies on this site who have had experiences with this company and I saw nothing negative. Most of those reviews were a couple of years ago though. I guess I just need some reassurance or to speak with some ladies who are going through something similar. This destination thing is all so sudden to me. I had already purchased a dress, centerpieces, invitations and everything for a traditional wedding, but then something dawned on me. I just REALLY DON'T WANT TO PAY $7000 (which is actually cheap!) for OTHER PEOPLE to enjoy MY wedding. I know that's selfish, but I really want to spend that kind of money on myself and my fiance to make a dream come true. I think with the economy the way it is and all, it is a new day and people are becoming more conscious with their money and traditions are changing. We will just have a big, nice party when we come back to celebrate with family and friends. I know I'm rambling guys, but any responses/advice are appreciated!

starchild · May 6, 2012

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lisaeloine · May 6, 2012

Hi Paradise,

Understand they way you feel. (I am Jamaican). Negril is beautiful. Where are you staying?

Just a word to other brides. If you were thinking of eloping to Jamaica (especially if you haven't been there before), a way to alleviate the stress is get married at an all-inclusive. Several hotels now offer free weddings if you stay a certain number of nights. I got married in Negril 4 years ago that way. No stress and it was beautiful and cheap! I recommend Sandals for small weddings.

Hope this helps

Lisa