FI sister... do I have to make her a bridesmaid???

[krisdaversa]

I thought about that but I have no idea what else to have her do...she can't do a reading or speak in front of people in any way. And she lives about 800 miles away from me so even having her just attend things wouldn't work...I'm at a loss with a way to include her but any suggestions are appreciated!

Maybe you can include her in other ways so she feels part of the wedding and will feel special. Get her to do things she is capable of, from helping pick out items for an out of town bag? Colours? Flowers? Or help to decorate at the resort? Easy things

[talicea7812]

my fi has a sister and step sister.  I didn't ask either one.  we are not close so I don't expect them to have to chip in for all the expenses associated with being a bridesmaid. 

[kdnolan]

We decided to have no sisters.... I have 2 and he has 3.... to many to choose from....

[jwalsh]

I have a brother and my fi has a sister so we agreed to have them both stand for us.  His sister and I don't always get along but it's important to me to have my brother be part of the wedding party..However if my brother wasn't getting to stand for my fi his sister wouldn't be standing for me.