I've had it with feeling like I'm planning this by myself!!!

[DRPrincesa]

I do not have a wedding party as this is a vow renewal for me and I felt it wasn't necessary.  I must say my hubby who is a laid back kinda guy has also stepped up and helped with giving more than the average"that's nice".  For things like trying on dresses, I will grab a few of my girls and most likely take my mom with me for the actual decision making!  I'm glad you got over it, I was worried at first as well but happy to receive help every so often as opposed to feeling like I must consult with my "wedding party".  Happy planning!

Originally Posted by JulieRose 

Thanks everybody. It's been about 2 weeks since this post and I'm pretty well over it. My fh really stepped up and started getting more involved. He's agreed to help with invite assembly and even making those dreaded calls to people who can't be bothered to RSVP. He went from very "yes dear" to actually voicing his opinions which is good. (He even made the final decision on the invite and it's perfect!)
As for the MOH- she's respected my wishes and not tried to contact me. I still don't think she understands that it wasn't the backing out that bothered me as much as it was the tactless way she did it. A mutual friend tried to explain it to her but who knows if it got through. Either way, I'm done with her and it's been less stress ever since.