etiquette for Hallmark Holidays (Mother's Day)?

spunkimo · September 27, 2011

Hi everyone! I'm new here, so hopefully I'm posting this to the right place. I'm newly engaged (as 2 days ago!) and we want to do a May 2012 wedding in Playa del Carmen. Unfortunately, the only weekend open at the venue I like is MOTHER'S DAY weekend! Ahhh!

So, it seems the general consensus for NON destination weddings is that Mother's Day weekend is perfectly acceptable, but what about a destination wedding (most people will be away from home/traveling that Sunday)? Is this good to go, or an etiquette no-no?

Thanks!

JayKay · September 28, 2011

I don't think it would be a problem. Mothers day is not really a holiday that most people celebrate, more just a day to get together with your mom. For most people, its just a phone call or a card in the mail, not a big fancy turkey dinner like most other holidays. I say if thats the only weekend thats available then go for it.

JPenny · September 28, 2011

I agree with PP. I think you're fine to do it that weekend. I don't think guests would be too upset about it.

Jamie5280 · September 28, 2011

I think it is totally fine to do it over that weekend. My b-day always falls on or around mother's day and I still celebrate my b-day over mother's day (but I don't like my step mom) !!! HA!!! I think you will be just fine and will not offend anyone!!!

Jamie5280 · September 28, 2011

I meant to add, your wedding is very important and most will understand!!!

spunkimo · September 29, 2011

Thanks guys - I appreciate the feedback! I contacted the resort (La Reve), but they are already in the booking process for a corporate retreat that weekend!! GAH!