How to handle

zbwedding · September 26, 2011

Thats a lot of money to lose! But I'm loving your attitude!! My mom was the last to apply for a Passport and still hasnt received it yet. Talk about a lesson in responsibility... for her! LOL So you're sticking with your original date and location... Moon Dance Villas in Negril Jamaica for 11-11-11?

anudrm · September 27, 2011

Yes it is indeed and no one shed a tear when I couldn't do Jamaica, everyone was happy because Florida was easy and convenient for them (but not for me, we stay in Virginia). So through the entire process, everyone looked out for themselves and was so happy that I was having our wedding in Florida, LOL. People are ridiculous. At least your mom has applied for one, his brother or cousin have yet to and as of Saturday, October 1, they will be officially scratched off the guest list.

I wish I could have stuck with my date, I switched back to a DW in June, so my date pickings were very slim. We are now going to Dominican Republic (a lot cheaper than Moon Dance Villas) and we will be getting married 11-12-11, although we will be there on the 10th. The bride that is getting married on the 12th, I already wished her bad vibes, LOL (no just joking!!!)

Originally Posted by zbwedding

Thats a lot of money to lose! But I'm loving your attitude!! My mom was the last to apply for a Passport and still hasnt received it yet. Talk about a lesson in responsibility... for her! LOL So you're sticking with your original date and location... Moon Dance Villas in Negril Jamaica for 11-11-11?

mdcoug · September 28, 2011

Originally Posted by beachesSB1412

Lord do I feel your pain!! Last week was "Let the complaining begin" week for me! Grrrrrrrrrrr. I was so hoping it would never come....I mean I had gone 9mos with no complaints and for crying out loud we are all going to Jamaica and leaving crappy-a$$ Kansas weather behind in January and I am pretty sure I didnt pull anyone's leg and FORCE them to come. Why cant people just be happy and shut it! shew....thanks for letting me vent!

Vent anytime you need to, this forum has definitely been a great place for me to get my venting out. We are here as extra shoulders to lean on.

mdcoug · September 28, 2011

Luckily for us we did not have too many people we invited. Outside of family we tried to think of the people we wouldn't mind being on a tropical island with. The last thing I needed was to fly somewhere beautiful to turn around and end up kicking some tail because someone wants to start drama. I am not having it.

Ladies, I am feeling the same way as you all. At first I pissed, mad, and even started thinking about making changes and losing deposits. Then all that turned into the attitude of " YOU GOT TO BE FREAKING KIDDING ME" this is not about you and what you folks want. None of them are paying anything therefore you definitely have no say. If it is that important for you to be there for your brother then make it happen with no complaints. What are these people thinking ? At this point I do not care what they want or do.

anudrm · September 28, 2011

YES YES YES _ What mdcoug said, I lost plenty of deposits only for my mom to tell me to step up and be Selina....if they WANT to come they will make it THEIR responsibility!

Originally Posted by mdcoug

Luckily for us we did not have too many people we invited. Outside of family we tried to think of the people we wouldn't mind being on a tropical island with. The last thing I needed was to fly somewhere beautiful to turn around and end up kicking some tail because someone wants to start drama. I am not having it.

Ladies, I am feeling the same way as you all. At first I pissed, mad, and even started thinking about making changes and losing deposits. Then all that turned into the attitude of " YOU GOT TO BE FREAKING KIDDING ME" this is not about you and what you folks want. None of them are paying anything therefore you definitely have no say. If it is that important for you to be there for your brother then make it happen with no complaints. What are these people thinking ? At this point I do not care what they want or do.