Losing my "wedding planning mojo" Has anyone else felt this way?

[cbritto]

I feel exactly the same way! I started planning a year in advance and was completely enthralled, and now that I'm four months away I've kind of stalled. I really need my mojo to come back, because there's still a lot to be done before the big day! So glad to hear I'm not the only one this has happened to.

[Sharon99]

Well I lost it, it came back & now I lost it again! It's so bad I dont come on this site as much & I rarely write responses anymore. I will read a few threads & then don't even care! I don't even want to think about all the crap I still have to buy, plan & choose. To top it off my resort is screwing me with the photographer we booked. So now we have to FIGHT them which is stressing me out...ugh. I am so over with wedding planning. Here's to hoping my mojo comes back & I actually give a sh*t! lol! Man I sound miserable!! 

 

[canadiangirl]

AWWWWWW sharon, that sucks!!!!!!! dont stress to much....did you book your photographer yet? are they through the resort? or are they outside vendors? what I would do is take your deposit and RUN, there are a ton of photographers through this site that have great reviews for mexico

 

Just remember hun, in the end it will all work out! and it will be beautiful. youll get your mojo back I ALWAYS DO LOL
 

Originally Posted by Sharon99 

Well I lost it, it came back & now I lost it again! It's so bad I dont come on this site as much & I rarely write responses anymore. I will read a few threads & then don't even care! I don't even want to think about all the crap I still have to buy, plan & choose. To top it off my resort is screwing me with the photographer we booked. So now we have to FIGHT them which is stressing me out...ugh. I am so over with wedding planning. Here's to hoping my mojo comes back & I actually give a sh*t! lol! Man I sound miserable!! 

 

 

[Sharon99]

Yes, we put a deposit down on La Luna. Its the resort who suddenly changed their policy after telling me it was OK.

Ah, and DW are supposed to be less stressful! 

[canadiangirl]

was this through emails??? the OK i mean lol if so i would talk to the w/c manager and explain or hell yell till you get it sorted.....and to be honest, the resort has to give you something in writing re any changes to your wedding or vendors!!!

Originally Posted by Sharon99 

Yes, we put a deposit down on La Luna. Its the resort who suddenly changed their policy after telling me it was OK.

Ah, and DW are supposed to be less stressful! 

 

[Sharon99]

Yes & unfortunately we have been back & forth for a few weeks and they are still holding strong saying its coming from corporate, they dont do contracts blah blah. GRR! We shall see what happens I guess. Probably a good reason why I lost wedding interest! lol!

[canadiangirl]

well, if i can give you advice ..... dont let this ruin your wedding experience!!!!! do something fun for the wedding,,,,,it works for me everytime lol
 

Originally Posted by Sharon99 

Yes & unfortunately we have been back & forth for a few weeks and they are still holding strong saying its coming from corporate, they dont do contracts blah blah. GRR! We shall see what happens I guess. Probably a good reason why I lost wedding interest! lol!

 

[Sharon99]

Thanks!!! 

[canadiangirl]

NP hun anytime....ive got great listening ears......vent away lol

Originally Posted by Sharon99 

Thanks!!! 

 

[FutureMrzMalone]

I am felling the same way. I just started feeling this way last week, because I have been engaged for over a year and I still have over a year to go.:-( Besides the fact that I have to literally HUNT people down to let me know if they plan to attend or not. I got a group rate set up and everything but it just seems people are really interested in my wedding. :-( How to I get back in the planning sprit. I know I have time but I still have TONS left to do. My year mark witll be here before I know it.
 

Originally Posted by JQLong 

Hi ladies.....

As I have FINALLY reached my 150th post...(I struggled to get this far)...

I am beginning to lose my wedding planning mojo.  We don't get married until next year so I guess that could be part of it.  I look at all the planning being threads and wonder why I am not motivated as I was in the beginning.  I am still excited but I have really lost my mojo.....

 

Anyone feel this way during the process?  Will this feeling go away?  HELP ME FIND MY WEDDING PLANNING MOJO!!!