Is it bad if your fiance sees your dress?

[amyh]

I don't really want Hans to see my dress, but he's already seen the style I'm looking for. I can't keep a secret!

[IrieBride08]

My FI turned out to be pretty traditional too! I want to meet before the ceremony to take wedding pictures, but he's insisting that we wait until after cuz he doesn't want to see me in the dress until I walk down the aisle!

[evonut]

Future Hubby saw my dresses online, but not in person. He was also part of the buying process for one of them.

[royfa]

Last Friday we were shopping windows for the new house and I saw this wedding shop. We stopped and I tried a few dresses just so I see his reaction over each style I tried. He will not see the final choice, I don't want him to.

[~Melissa~]

OMG I have a funny story about this....

 

so last night UPS delivered my dress and of course first thing I do is go to try it on. Well it fit like a glove.... it's kind of a mermaid style dress so very fitting. I put my veil on and did a happy dance. I know I'm a dork but I'm fine with it.

 

So when it came ot taking it off I was having problems. First I was getting all clamy and sweaty which did not help the process. Second I got it over my head and then got stuck, I started hyperventalating and FREAKING OUT.

 

No one was home but FH! I didn't know what to do so I started moving and shaking in hoped to get it off. But nope no luck.... finally something gave and the dress came off. I was about 10 seconds off of calling FH though who would have seen the dress.

 

geeze so close! I learned my lesson and I will NOT be trying it on again without help. LOL

[boscobel]

That is a funny story, I can totally see that happening to me.

 

I tried to have Matt look at some with me to see what he liked, but he said they all looked the same. I know all he cares about is that I am in the dress, so that is fine with me! He knows it will be nothing big though, cuz I like more sleek styles. And he knows I don't like satin and love beading and lace. So I guess if he thought about it enough, he could form some pictures in his mind. But he will not see it before the wedding, hopefully anyway. And if he does, I don't beleive that is bad luck and I won't cry about it if he happens to see it. But I agree that it's all in the moment when he first sees you in it.

[MsShelley]

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Originally Posted by Julesr I would show him a picture of another dress, if he will not leave you alone, but I would not show him your real dress, that ruins the surprise.

I totally agree with Julie!!! I was going throught this too, FI wouldn't leave me alone and said he can see the dress, just not on me!!! But I want him to be suprised!

[LisaG]

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Originally Posted by Raeka OMG I have a funny story about this.... so last night UPS delivered my dress and of course first thing I do is go to try it on. Well it fit like a glove.... it's kind of a mermaid style dress so very fitting. I put my veil on and did a happy dance. I know I'm a dork but I'm fine with it. So when it came ot taking it off I was having problems. First I was getting all clamy and sweaty which did not help the process. Second I got it over my head and then got stuck, I started hyperventalating and FREAKING OUT. No one was home but FH! I didn't know what to do so I started moving and shaking in hoped to get it off. But nope no luck.... finally something gave and the dress came off. I was about 10 seconds off of calling FH though who would have seen the dress. geeze so close! I learned my lesson and I will NOT be trying it on again without help. LOL

ROFL ~ You are totally cracking me up!!! I can totally see myself doing that. I get stuck in clothes while in the dressing room all the time!

[*JillD*]

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Originally Posted by Raeka OMG I have a funny story about this.... so last night UPS delivered my dress and of course first thing I do is go to try it on. Well it fit like a glove.... it's kind of a mermaid style dress so very fitting. I put my veil on and did a happy dance. I know I'm a dork but I'm fine with it. So when it came ot taking it off I was having problems. First I was getting all clamy and sweaty which did not help the process. Second I got it over my head and then got stuck, I started hyperventalating and FREAKING OUT. No one was home but FH! I didn't know what to do so I started moving and shaking in hoped to get it off. But nope no luck.... finally something gave and the dress came off. I was about 10 seconds off of calling FH though who would have seen the dress. geeze so close! I learned my lesson and I will NOT be trying it on again without help. LOL

I did the same thing when I got my first dress!! I was freaking out that I was going to have to call FI!!

I'm so glad you got your dress and that you love it! When I ordered my new one they gave me the approximate date of the 19th, but I really want to call tomorrow and find out if they know anything, I'm really anxious!

[~Melissa~]

Yea it was one of those "moments" as in dumbass moments...

 

hey jill I say go for it and call them, it's always nice just for peace of mind. I know I called about 2 weeks before it got here - just checking that the order is still on schedule.