Feeling upset

[magikstarrynite7]

Well, I finally got the big bill for from our immigration lawyer (my future hubby is a Mexican from/living in Cancun...). It is over $7500 for the immigration proceedings. That is my entire wedding budget and then some  All this because he let a visa expire over 6 years ago! AHHHHHHH!

 

So I can forget the 35 person some wedding I was planning, I just can't afford it...plain and simple.

 

We had thought about last December getting married just the two of us, but I chickened out because I didn't want to be there without my loved ones, but it looks like now I don't have a choice.

 

On top of that, we still have to wait for this divorce to finalize. He hasn't even spoken to the woman in over a year, and she is not making this very easy. Divorces in Mexico are a train wreck. *sigh* I just don't why it has to be so complicated sometimes.

 

Sorry, just venting

 

But, in lighter news, I did go dress shopping today and I think I found the dress. Even without my loved one there, FI and I are going to have a beautiful wedding! This has just put a little damper in my spirits.

[blondy]

Sorry to hear you are having a tough time.

[LisaMatterni]

That must be so hard no you. Anyhow, I hope things will get better in the long run. Good luck on your plan for your wedding day and best wishes.

[HazelsMelody]

Sorry to hear about your troubles. I totally understand how it dampers your spirits about what should be the happiest day of your life! It's hard to keep you chin up. Hang in there.