Bridesmaid bust!

barefoot_pinktoes@hotmail · February 6, 2011

Oh how terrible for you. I'm so sorry this is happening for you.

I know how it feels, less than 2 weeks before my wedding, one of my bridesmaids pulled out It's so painful and you wonder how you will ever forgive them... It would have been fine if it wasn't so close, but when it's closer you probably have stuff planned including them.

I'm so sorry and I'm sending you lots of love, and as everyone has told me, the day is about you and him, and everyone else is icing on the cake!!

Best wishes!

CBREWSTER · February 6, 2011

This is terrible. These girls are not true friends, because no one treats someone like this. I can't afford to pay any of my BM way but if I could and they acted this way we would no longer be friends. I hope that you can get over this drama and just enjoy your special day with all the people who really matter. I wish you the best and hate to hear that this happened.

MsFactorA · February 6, 2011

Hey girls,

I am sorry to hear about your struggles. I don't know how I feel about if my MOH or BMs bailed, but I tell you I will not be shocked if they do. I think sometimes we confuse a true friendship with people who we hangout all the time and think they are true friends. I have a few very close friends but they are very self-centered and selfish, I look pass that. Even one of my best guy friend said he could not believe that I didn't ask him to be my BM....like seriously? get over yourself! You are lucky that you got invited!

I had people asking me to change my date because it did not work with their schedules or gf or bf could not make, I said N-O. I always say if there is a will, there is a way. I am planning to get married ones to a man I love, the most important person that has to be beside me is him. The rest of people will come and go into and out of our lives...So have a drink and seek support in a arms of your man...

Good luck with the rest of the planning. One day you will look back at it and remember how happy you were marrying a man of your dreams in paradise with blue water and pillow soft white sand...We are so lucky and fortunate that we could do that:)

barefoot_pinktoes@hotmail · February 7, 2011

AWwh, you guys are awesome and it's so true! MS Factor, you are so right on when you said about thinking people are you friends. I had a hard time picking my wedding party because I have friends that are friends from the past that I love, but our friendships are SO different now... and then I got burned by them!! Oh well lesson learned, and you are So right, it's about him and mee, and that's all that's important!!

Best wishes to all of you!!