How to get menu choices out...tacky??

[Amiep603]

So my wedding is Feb 11, 2011 and I just found out there are entree choices for the guests but obv the invites have gone out already...I am doing a pre wedding mailing but not sure if I want to include this in there.  Is it tacky to just email everyone the choices (just 22 people) and ask for an email response with there choice?? 

[karyan]

I think that's cool, keep it casual

[Amanda+Dave]

I think that is perfectly OK to do.

[CamLovesJA]

Yep this is what I did, I did it a month before the date

[sonyaj]

Ya that's totally reasonable. If I was a guest I wouldn't mind an email asking me menu choices.

[DiamondGirl]

I don't see anything wrong with it. If the easier route is less stressful.... Then take it

[murmel]

We just sent out our pre-travel brochure and included a little card with the dinner choices. We just asked guests to emai their response, but if they don't respond they will automatically get choice 1.

I don't see a problem with emailing guests, you are under a time crunch, and I am sure your guests would rather have a dinner choice than not. Good luck.

[Nickj]

I think its a fabulous idea. All the best.....

[niajs]

I like murmel's suggestion, but if you just have to email people, I don't think that's a problem. I think that we think too much about getting things to match and everything looking amazing, but, as murmel said, they'd rather have the choice. When I went to a wedding in Italy earlier this year, the bride asked people their dinner choices via facebook!

 

If you're artistic, perhaps you could type up the menu nicely and attach it as a PDF, so that your guests have something nice to look at?

[helen9]

i think its fine to email as well