Involving Maid of Honor...

[LisaandJeff]

This is a late reply-- but I know how you feel. My two MOHs live out of the country (one in Singapore, the othernin Calgary), and I have another bm that lives in Hong Kong. We've had to be really good at email and Skype! Thankfully, they are all wedding pros and have been really helpful and understanding. . The biggest problem is ordering the dresses -- they will all be in the States for the bachelorette, but that's the only time they'll have to try on and alter the dresses. The good news is that it has all worked out so far! Good luck!

[jeanny]

My maid of honor lives in another state also.   We've actually been talking together almost daily on the phone giving each other status on what's going on and getting opinions on different things about the planning.   

[june11bride]

I have the same problem. Because I am doing a DW I have little to do in preparation of the wedding, and therefore love to do all the little details myself. My MOH is in a different city, but my bridesmaid sister is always asking what she can do. I feel bad saying nothing, since I did so much for her wedding and I know she'd return the favor, but I really love sitting at home doing these little projects!!

In the end, we will be spending a week together in Mexico for the wedding and there will be lots for them to do to help. Plus they are all busy so they are probably glad I'm not a bridezilla!!

I send them pics when I'm struggling with a decision, etc so I hope that helps them